I am so upset- do not want the wedding anymore,serously
Original post by olechka1911
Hi girls
I just need to vent. We just came back from our RH. We were paying our final balance today, and, as I predicted, our BM gave us horrible time about giving him ( BM) and others ( Maitre'D, waiters, attendant) tips TODAY, that is before the wedding. I knew we would have this problem with him, as he told us last time to BRING TIPS IN CASH when we pay our balance ( 10 days before the wedding), but I was thinking that we would be able to communicate to him that we want to tip them all AFTER. So, he told us (me, my FH and his parents) that he hopes we have tips today with us, and that all tips have to go through him. My FH started saying that they will get tips AFTER, BM got upset and told us 'WE CAN NOT DO IT'. The argument started.
Then his parents took over, I think they give him cash to shup him up, and he said that ON THE DAY OF THE WEDDING AT EXACTLY 9PM (as his office closes at that time)HE WILL GO INTO THE HALL WHERE OUR PARTY WILL BE TO ASK FOR TIPS.
SO i guess we will give them tips before as I DO NOT WANT HIS FILTHY *** IN MY HALL WITH MY GUESTS ASKING FOR THIS F@@@@@@ TIPS
I do not know how to deal with this
Thanks for listening
Marly
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Re: I am so upset- do not want the wedding anymore,serously
I would report them to BBB and then I'd tell my story to Arnold Diaz/Shame On You!!!!! That way the public can see what TRASH they really are!!!!
There is no call for what they did to you, You and your FH are paying them alot of money to work for you!!!!
Lemons
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OMG! That is HORRIBLE! I am so sorry this is happenening to you. I would try to go over his head to a superior. How do you tip someone for a service that hasn't even been received yet? Thats just crazy! Also, threaten to let other brides know how awful the service is there and maybe (just maybe, he won't be such a *^@#! Good Luck!
