So please let me know if you think that this is okay.....i get a call from one of my BM's and FHs sister that his fam isnt comming down till LATE thurs night getting in around 4am friday!!!!!!!Now this includes 3 BM 2 GM Flower Girl and MOG AND FOG..... our Bach parties are thurs night!! They didnt bother to come to my shower, now they arent comming to the bach parties, his WHOLE family is complaining about how much everything is costing and they dont have money.....mind you theyhavent paid for a darn THING! AND they arent getting their hair or makeup done!!!!!!!!!!!
FHs responce.....dont take it personal.............
OOMMGG i spent and hour in the shower sobbing
More below and a bit more detailed
SOrry i had to get that out so bad!!! P:(
*** UPDATE**
spoke with one of FHs sisters and i appologized for gettimg mad and cryng on her but i told her that I was hurt that she 'Forgot' about it and was upset that they are all missing it. She carified that only her her DH (GM) and Daughter (FG) will be getting in late...
she called a meeting with everyone for this weekend to all decide how to get down here and when they are comming.
thanks for all the support girl...i just needed a day to calm down and get it out ya know??
gettinghizitched
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I'm telling you! If you want to know who your true friends are have a wedding. I just got back from my bach party in fox woods and do you know who came from my BP my two sisters and thats it. My brothers wife didn't come witch pissed me off seeing that i spent almost like 2k on her wedding. Fh's sister is preggo so she really couldn't come but wanted to. My so called friend didn't come and didn't call me. I think that maybe she wanted me to bagg her. No not happening. After the wedding is over i'm not even talking to her. Long story but she has brought me alot of stress and i can't wait not to see her face anymore. I was in her wedding and did everything that she wanted i just don't understand people. So i say F*&k um. Don't let them ruin your day just take it one day at a time. HTH.
Cutechef729
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Well I'm glad you guys got to talk. I'm sure you feel better. It's also nice that she is getting together with everyone to make sure everyone gets there! Good luck!
jaep129
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I am so in the same boat. FH family is from upstate. His grandmother was the only one who came to my shower b/c he drove her. Hi mother couldn't get off of work but guess where she is this weekend....The Jersey Shore! She took this weekend end b/c it was so nice and her friend wanted to go. You couldn't take off for your soon to be daughter in laws shower! Also, his aunt is not even coming to the wedding b/c no one can watch the dog. The dog? Put it in a those things for dogs (cant remember what they call them) or something like a neighbor can watch it. I mean come on. I am not sure where your FH family is from but let me tell you people from upstate really done understand the importance of a wedding!
Jamnike
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hes from a small town over an hr south of buffalo.....in nowhere land
UGH
and he got mad at me the other day cuz i made a comment about his dad staying in his tux all day....at his sisters wedding he changed after the ceremony into jeans and a dirty tshirt i was like NOOO way is he doing that at our wedding
