I am such a Pathetic Mess of a Bride........

Can you beleive that I ordered my dress a week ago and I am already feeling regrets on getting that particular dress!!!!

I keep going back to the original dress that I was going to get and questioning my decision!!!!!!!!!!

PLEASE tell me this is normal!!!!! I seriously feel like calling the salon and seeing if I can hold the order until I try the first dress on!!!!

I'm being pathetic, right??? This is just ridiculous!!!! UGH!!!!!

OH NO! I don't know what to say! I am so fearful of this too which is why I can't decide! What is your gut telling you!?

I am sure both dresses will be beautiful which ever you have so remember that!

OMG, don't feel pathetic. I ordered my dress months ago and I still sometimes wonder if I made the right decision. I think we will wonder that till the day of our wedding. I think all of us want everything to be perfect so we focus on every detail. If you are starting to regret your decision then I think you should go try it on, just to make sure. I am sure you are not the only bride to do it! Good Luck

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

what?!??! why!?!?! thats one of the most unique dresses ive ever seen

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I think THAT's my problem!!! Maybe it TOO unique?? I've always wanted to go with simplicity, and I feel I went opposite!!!! D A M D A M D A M

ok i just went back to ur album to look at it again... ITS HOT! I LOVE IT, dont stress it... I thnk EVERYONE second guesses their dresses.. Lord knows I have!!!! [and sometimes still do! and its being made as we speak!!!!]

I too, question whether I got the right dress. I bought mine from Davids (ugg ) and it came so quickly. I have had it for months now. I did not join LIW till after the purchase, now I see how many choices there are and sometimes get thoughts of regret. I just remind myself, I stayed w/ in my budget. I also, stop looking at dresses and don't look at mine. So, I don't get depressed But, I'm sure I made a good choice, or so my mom says

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

what?!??! why!?!?! thats one of the most unique dresses ive ever seen

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I think THAT's my problem!!! Maybe it TOO unique?? I've always wanted to go with simplicity, and I feel I went opposite!!!! D A M D A M D A M

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no it totally IS simple!! Its elegant, has personality, but not TOO much personality. I think its perfect really! And will be gorgeous in the photos!!!

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

what?!??! why!?!?! thats one of the most unique dresses ive ever seen

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I think THAT's my problem!!! Maybe it TOO unique?? I've always wanted to go with simplicity, and I feel I went opposite!!!! D A M D A M D A M

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I have seen a lot of girls getting dresses totally opposite of what they felt from the start. Usually when you have that first idea of what you think you want, it turns out to be something different.

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

what?!??! why!?!?! thats one of the most unique dresses ive ever seen

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I think THAT's my problem!!! Maybe it TOO unique?? I've always wanted to go with simplicity, and I feel I went opposite!!!! D A M D A M D A M

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no it totally IS simple!! Its elegant, has personality, but not TOO much personality. I think its perfect really! And will be gorgeous in the photos!!!

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You're good at this!!!!

I think I am looking at it too much. Maybe that's it. Maybe I just need to block Jim Hjelm website on my computer....... oh my goodness......

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

what?!??! why!?!?! thats one of the most unique dresses ive ever seen

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I think THAT's my problem!!! Maybe it TOO unique?? I've always wanted to go with simplicity, and I feel I went opposite!!!! D A M D A M D A M

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I have seen a lot of girls getting dresses totally opposite of what they felt from the start. Usually when you have that first idea of what you think you want, it turns out to be something different.

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I agree with you......I do hear that happen a lot.....I guess when it happens to you, then you start to freak out a bit.......blah! I hope its just a 'moment' I'm having.........

Are you kidding!!! Since I saw your dress I'VE been re-thinking my dress choice!!! You're dress is AMAZING and you look gorgeous in it. I LOVE IT and ashamed bc frankly I am jealous

You have NOTHING to worry about!

Your dress is STUNNING! Don't worry, I looove my dress, but kept wondering if there was something else for a while after too. But when I think about it, and I try my dress on, it's def the one!
But go w/ your gut.

You girls are the best. You truly are

I think it's just a mixture of things and seeing me in the bigger size is a huge thing too because it doesn't look the way it should.

You are all right though..... I shouldn't worry about it. I will try not to think about it until it comes in......lets just hope it comes in sooner than they say ..... JUST incase

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Posted by brittny817

Are you kidding!!! Since I saw your dress I'VE been re-thinking my dress choice!!! You're dress is AMAZING and you look gorgeous in it. I LOVE IT and ashamed bc frankly I am jealous

You have NOTHING to worry about!

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On my gosh!!! You look STUNNING in your dress! I LOVE the train on it AND the front detail!!! Beautiful!........

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Posted by werock0709

If you don't go with that dress, YOUR NUTS!!!

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I second that!! that dress is made for you..very elegant!

All of my girlfriends & even the woman at the store told me 'once you pick a dress, stop looking'. They said if you keep looking in magazines & online that you will drive yourself crazy.

STOP LOOKING.

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Posted by carolinebr

All of my girlfriends & even the woman at the store told me 'once you pick a dress, stop looking'. They said if you keep looking in magazines & online that you will drive yourself crazy.

STOP LOOKING.

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Perfectly said