ok I understand everyone's opinions.. I NEVER said I don't trust the FH! so everyone who keeps replying with 'I trust my FH', that's not it.
I just feel if you don't do that now, why that one night?!
If he goes, he goes.. I'm not going to not marry him or get into a big fight over it.
I just think it's disrespectful. But everyone is entitled to their own opinions.
Not to kick up but I highly doubt your man has never been to a strip club. As previous posters said, it's a rite of passage and as long as you trust him, it's harmless.
In the 5 years we have been together, no he hasn't.. and before me, I don't care if he did or not but he was 18 when we first started dating so he couldnt even get into one.
You've been with him every evening for 5 years?
Yes Mam! And the nights I go out with the ladies dancing, he is at my house in my bed waiting for me! I have a good man :0)
and it was a simple question that I was wondering everyone's opinion.. why you are attacking me, I have no idea.
so if our FHs go out they are not good men.
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Anyone else think she's sugar coating that a bit??? what guy waits home in bed??? I mean, unless there's some realllly good pornn on!!
she wouldn't answer the question about if he watches porn or not.
Yeah because he's one of those creepy porn obsessed weirdos since his FW won't let him out of the house!
omg i nearly spit out the popcorn I was eating
I was drinking water while reading that - not a good situation. thanks for that!!!
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that doesnt sound like a good man to me
sounds more like hes pusssy whiippeed BIG TIME!!!!!!
ros he's not completely pusssy whipped, he's allowed out to look at RH's with her!
now i think I just tinkled a bit in my panties!
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Her post is actually amusing to me that a strip club is sooooo awful ,lol.. to be completely honest.. I have been to them. Fh has been to them.. We have been together to them and i have been to the guy ones at a place and in a hotel room.. ITS HARMLESS!!! Its not something we do on a regular basis but once in a blue moon, for bach parties/ hangin with friends/ client parties.. yes Ive seen it all.....
its all in good fun!! my fh isnt goin to go home with any of these girlz.. and to be honest if he decided to go to one for his bach party i wouldnt care cause im sure my bro and dad will be there and my fh is not stupid enough to do something to disrespect me!! I try not to let little things like that bother me.. everyone has their own idea of fun and we have to respect that.. JMO
I SWEAR IM NOT A STRIPPER!! PROMISE!!
you are 100% right. to each his own.
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I don't think its good form to bash on any other bride here or her thread for that matter. She's 22, not 16 and what she does in her relationship with FH is her business.
If her FH waits for her in bed and thats what she likes - all the more power to her. Who are we to judge what other brides do or don't do with their FH's? Let her express her opinion, why add fuel to the fire??
-my 2 cents
i understand what you are saying but she said because he waits home for her hes a 'good man.' i took that as well since everyone else's FH goes out without them & doesn't sit at home they are not good men.
that's what bothered me.
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I just don't understand why she deleted every comment that she posted on that thread. And why is she worrying about this when she has 3 years still! That's what's bothering me about this post more then anything else.
Thisssss...I really don't even think about this at all and we are 9 months out. At 3 years out I probably wouldn't even be thinking much wedding stuff beyond 'oh I want to try on dresses!!!' but even then....why commit to anything 3 years out?? What if you change your mind??
I wanted to read all the comments I am so mad she editted them! Come on now - stand behind what you say (type)!!!!
FH asked me yesterday about his b-party if there was anything off-limits - his brother wants to go to Brazil or Amsterdam.... I asked him to please stay within the continental US and no hookers and he thought that was very fair. His brother is looking at his party as a way to take a break and get away. (which is the case for most soon-to-be grooms)
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I don't think its good form to bash on any other bride here or her thread for that matter. She's 22, not 16 and what she does in her relationship with FH is her business.
If her FH waits for her in bed and thats what she likes - all the more power to her. Who are we to judge what other brides do or don't do with their FH's? Let her express her opinion, why add fuel to the fire??
-my 2 cents
Ok...but as soon as you post your 'personal relationship business' on a public forum, it isn't personal anymore!!!!
And she was asking for opinions...people gave them...you can't get upset about that!!
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I don't think its good form to bash on any other bride here or her thread for that matter. She's 22, not 16 and what she does in her relationship with FH is her business.
If her FH waits for her in bed and thats what she likes - all the more power to her. Who are we to judge what other brides do or don't do with their FH's? Let her express her opinion, why add fuel to the fire??
-my 2 cents
I TOTALLY agree with you. But...
saying all strippers are gross I take offense too. I never was, but have friends that are or were...they are not gross..
I only think people who hurt another human being (esp children) or animal are gross...
and ps: maybe someone on here strips or is related to someone that does...
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and ps: maybe someone on here strips or is related to someone that does...
That's a very good point.
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I really can't stand people who post a topic to fuel drama...blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh BECAUSE I HATE POPCORN!!!!I only like cheddar and caramel.
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I don't think she intended to start drama. Some of these threads get out of control sometimes.
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Yeah! i was having a boring day at work till i read that!! only 1&1/2 hours left for work now :)
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I really can't stand people who post a topic to fuel drama...blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh BECAUSE I HATE POPCORN!!!!I only like cheddar and caramel.
oohh I love those..the Xmas tins!!!
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I don't think its good form to bash on any other bride here or her thread for that matter. She's 22, not 16 and what she does in her relationship with FH is her business.
If her FH waits for her in bed and thats what she likes - all the more power to her. Who are we to judge what other brides do or don't do with their FH's? Let her express her opinion, why add fuel to the fire??
-my 2 cents
she really made it seem like if your man isnt home waiting for you while your out than hes a POS!!! thats what bothered me!!
just because shes 22 doesnt mean boo i know 22 year olds who act like 10years olds and 16year olds who act like they are 40
if she really wanted to keep her relationship private she wouldnt have posted any of this crap on a public forum. im not here to judge her. im hear to express my opinion.
