I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....

Bobbysgirl Posted: Dec 02, 2005 10:47 PM

I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....

It went really well!

I gave them each a double folding frame.. one side a poem and the other side a pic of me and that person!

My MOH's was a little different though and so was my flower girl..

BUT..... then one of my BM's who I am pretty close with (not as close as my MOH though) and who I've known for a long time.. gets funny at the end of the night.

I text one of my other BM's after we all left to see what was up with this one girl and she told me that she was upset bc she thought I would be having 2 moh's!

So I was talking to this BM who is upset with me online.. she doesn't mention anything to me but is all funny... telling me that she will be fine... and that she'll be ok in time.. but not telling me whats up! BUT I KNOW FROM MY OTHER BM!

I can't believe there is drama already!

Thanks for listening to me vent!

Here is some pics of their gifts. Each BM got a personalized pic #1, pic #2 is for my MOH, and pic #3 is for my FG.

atlast62506 Posted: Dec 02, 2005 10:50 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....

thats such a cute idea!!! i wish i would have done something like that! sorry your BM got all weird on you! she'll get over it..she should just be happy you asked her to be apart of your special day and that she was included!

i dont see any pics

Missladybug15 Posted: Dec 02, 2005 10:50 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....

Posted by Bobbysgirl

It went really well!

I gave them each a double folding frame.. one side a poem and the other side a pic of me and that person!

My MOH's was a little different though and so was my flower girl..

BUT..... then one of my BM's who I am pretty close with (not as close as my MOH though) and who I've known for a long time.. gets funny at the end of the night.

I text one of my other BM's after we all left to see what was up with this one girl and she told me that she was upset bc she thought I would be having 2 moh's!

So I was talking to this BM who is upset with me online.. she doesn't mention anything to me but is all funny... telling me that she will be fine... and that she'll be ok in time.. but not telling me whats up! BUT I KNOW FROM MY OTHER BM!

I can't believe there is drama already!

Thanks for listening to me vent!

Here is some pics of their gifts. Each BM got a personalized pic #1, pic #2 is for my MOH, and pic #3 is for my FG.

Oh I hear ya, I asked one of George's cousin's to be a BM and one of his other cousins had the freakin nerve to get upset, meanwhile I am not even close with her. Ugh, so dramatic

chellynyc Posted: Dec 02, 2005 10:52 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....

I like your idea how you asked them, I didn't have any - I just came out and asked them. I'm sorry you have the drama - it will pass over time. You have to do what's best for you - it's yours and FH's day. You can try to keep everyone happy, but it will be hard - just make sure you and FH are happy.

Bobbysgirl Posted: Dec 02, 2005 11:15 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....

Its so weird how you can be planning a wedding - which is a very grown-up mature - adult thing to do.. and still have to deal with the high school, childish cr@p.

I HATE DRAMA!