I started to write you all on Wednesday complaining about how much stress we are under in regards to us moving, putting the house on the market, FH no longer working, and how sad I was that everything was going on with only 4 weeks to the wedding when the worst thing has happened. My FH mother passed away 2 days ago. Completely unexpected with a brain aneurism. No symptoms. No problems. Just passed away. I just cannot even believe. I just can't. It is so overwhelming, so sad, so absolutely horrible that it's just so hard to wrap your heart around. The first thing my FFIL said was that the wedding goes on because Mom was so excited about it and would be so sad to have us postpone it. She is getting buried in the dress she was going to wear. I guess what I'm asking is for some hugs, prayers, and thoughts. With three weeks to the wedding, the funeral arrangements beginning today, I don't know why, but I've been on here for a little over a year and just felt like writing. Love your parents. Love your in-laws. Nothing is certain in life. Hug them all the time and let the small things go. The only thing that matters is family. Thank you everyone.
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Brain anuerysms are the silent killer. I lost my father to one in 1987. FH & I are doing a donation to the brain anuerysm foundation in memory of my father in lieu of favors. I completely understand your pain and loss over something so tragic that struck without warning.
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I am so sorry for you and your FH's loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Katie33
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I am so sorry for your loss.
JessicaM.
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OMG...I am so sorry. prayers and hugs to your, your fh, and his family. God Bless.
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I'm so sorry for you, your FH , and your family. Just know that she will be with you on your wedding day.
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Sunrise813
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There is no words that I can say that will make it better, but know that we are all here to talk and listen if you need to.
All my thoughts abnd prayers go out yo you and your family.
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hugs, thoughts, and prayers to you and your families.
A friend of mine passed away in college from one of those as well....sooo unexpected.
Maybride07
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I am so sorry.
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I am soooo sorry.
My prayers go out to you and your family.
7706bride
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OMG!! Word cannot beging to tell you how sorry I am and that you and your FH will be in my prayers EVERYDAY!!! I am so extremely sad for you and your LI wedding friends are here for you during this time!!!!
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My deepest sympathy to you & your FH. Like many of the other ladies - I had tears in my eyes when I read your post.
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charliesbride
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sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
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I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
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so sorry for your loss
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DanaMZ
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OMG, I don't even know what to say! I am so sorry. You guys will be in my prayers
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I have been praying for your family ever since I read about what happened, I am sorry from the bottom of my heart! We recently had a tragic and unexpected loss in our extended family too, so I truly feel your pain! We are trying to focus on positives and move on but it is so tough. Thank goodness you and your FH can lean on each other now. Please FM me if you need moral support.