I can't even believe I am writing this.....

Original post by jimmysgrl

Nov 12, 2005 08:06 AM

I started to write you all on Wednesday complaining about how much stress we are under in regards to us moving, putting the house on the market, FH no longer working, and how sad I was that everything was going on with only 4 weeks to the wedding when the worst thing has happened. My FH mother passed away 2 days ago. Completely unexpected with a brain aneurism. No symptoms. No problems. Just passed away. I just cannot even believe. I just can't. It is so overwhelming, so sad, so absolutely horrible that it's just so hard to wrap your heart around. The first thing my FFIL said was that the wedding goes on because Mom was so excited about it and would be so sad to have us postpone it. She is getting buried in the dress she was going to wear. I guess what I'm asking is for some hugs, prayers, and thoughts. With three weeks to the wedding, the funeral arrangements beginning today, I don't know why, but I've been on here for a little over a year and just felt like writing. Love your parents. Love your in-laws. Nothing is certain in life. Hug them all the time and let the small things go. The only thing that matters is family. Thank you everyone.

dianadrw Posted: Nov 12, 2005 05:11 PM

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I know there probably isn't much that I can say to make you feel better, just know that we are all thinking about you and your FH. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.

lrs2005 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 05:12 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your families.
Lisa

Mrs.A2006 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 05:51 PM

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I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you, your FH and family.

gNi1125 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 06:03 PM

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I am so sorry My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

kmkelly Posted: Nov 12, 2005 06:20 PM

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My prayers are with you, FH and your families . . .

NPTbride Posted: Nov 12, 2005 06:30 PM

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Danielle, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Thank you for reminding us all of what is truly important in life.

KandM2006 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 06:35 PM

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Thank you for taking the time to share your story because I can imagine you're going through SO much right now. My prayers are with you and thank you again for making us realize what is really important!!

enjft Posted: Nov 12, 2005 06:35 PM

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I will have your family in my prayers

MandM07-03-05 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 06:39 PM

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i am so sorry for your loss! my mom had a brain aneurism about 10 years ago that came out of no where. it took years for her to 'recover'. we were so lucky.
try to stay strong for your fh.

Pmpkn087 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 07:02 PM

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awww...I am sorry for your loss.

thefirstlady Posted: Nov 12, 2005 07:03 PM

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I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family, and I'm happy that your wedding will go on. You and your family will be in my prayers.

nan&dave Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:01 PM

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You and yours are in my prayers.

JodiBabe Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:14 PM

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I am soooooo sorry! My prayers are with you and your family!

PIZZ2306 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:24 PM

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I am so Sorry.

sk1nny27 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:25 PM

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i am so sorry!!!

reembride05 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:33 PM

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That is so sad. I am soooo sorry!! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

stacie0877 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 10:18 PM

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I'm so sorry for you loss. Your FFIL is a strong man who loves you both so much.

JennJay Posted: Nov 12, 2005 10:26 PM

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Oh my god.... That is so sad. I am sorry for you and your family. You are 100% right.... we all complain about our parents and inlaws to be, not ever imagineing somthing like that could or would ever happen. You are in my prayers jimmysgrl.