i cant keep secrets!

sumerbride09 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:08 AM

i cant keep secrets!

Am i the only one who is dying to show FH pics of the dresses i have tried so far. I ask for his opinion for everything and its killing me that i cant take him shopping with me (not that he minds). i want to tell him all about it and show him all the pictures and the dresses. i dont like secrets.. at all.

sharivera Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:15 AM

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Posted by sumerbride09

Am i the only one who is dying to show FH pics of the dresses i have tried so far. I ask for his opinion for everything and its killing me that i cant take him shopping with me (not that he minds). i want to tell him all about it and show him all the pictures and the dresses. i dont like secrets.. at all.

Well this is a GOOD secret!!! Don't you want to see the expression on his face when he sees your for the first time on your big day?? I know what you mean though.. I keep getting tempted to show him the dress, just because I love it so much..but BE STRONG...he will get to see it soon enough!! :)

sumerbride09 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:19 AM

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i will i will besides he doesnt want to know or see or anything. I met him for dinner once after trying on dresses and showed him a ppic of me in the slip thingy! LOL he thought it was a dress and got all mad at me for showing.

Celeste617 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:29 AM

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OMG it is sooo hard not to show him! One night we were drinking (he was DRUNK) and I showed him the pics (who knows why...) and luckily he didn't remember a thing the next day!!! Thank goodness!! I was so pissed at myself but for once I was grateful that he drank too much to remember

sumerbride09 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:32 AM

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LOL. i have a feeling this will happen sometimes in the next year too

chicky724 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:54 AM

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Haha I did the same thing... I have a bunch of pics from one designer and the one I liked the most was in there and I showed them all to him. Luckily he liked all of them.

HotAir Posted: Aug 10, 2008 07:27 AM

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Before I went shopping I showed him styles I was going to try on and the picture of my dress was in there. I doubt he remembers and my dress is a different color than the one the model was wearing.

It is really hard because I'm so excited and want to show him pictures of me in the dress.

VickiR510 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 09:13 AM

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This isnt a real secret. I mean he is definitely going to find this one out. I think in the end & when you see his face when he first sees you, you iwll say hey it was all worth the wait!!!

Firkx3 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 09:23 AM

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I totally agree! I tell FH everything! I really want to be able to make him a part of this, but I can't, I know. I just really wanna make sure he loves it too! I told him i wanted to show him to make sure he likes it. He told me it didnt matter what dress I wore cause I would look goregous no matter what, like i do everyday. Now, don't know if he meant that or was just saying it to shut me up, but it was so nice to hear either way

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Aug 10, 2008 10:38 AM

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some may think im crazy, but i actually did show FH a pic of my gown and he loved it BUT i wont show him what i look like it in heheh

Summertimegal424 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 10:39 AM

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i am the same way! i wanted to show him so bad, but i fought the temptation and didn't give in! i can't wait to see his face the day of

Dani777 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 10:40 AM

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I guess I'm the only one who's FH REFUSES to see it. I've tried a few times, and he's like, NO!! I don't want to see it! Then, he'll get all teary eyed b/c he goes into how once the doors open at the church and there I am... he didn't even want to see my VEIL!! OY!! haha. Soo.... he's set on his mind! LOL

Camroy Posted: Aug 10, 2008 11:16 AM

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Posted by Dani777

I guess I'm the only one who's FH REFUSES to see it. I've tried a few times, and he's like, NO!! I don't want to see it! Then, he'll get all teary eyed b/c he goes into how once the doors open at the church and there I am... he didn't even want to see my VEIL!! OY!! haha. Soo.... he's set on his mind! LOL

FH is very similar. I haven't tried on dresses yet. Going next week. I did try on my mom's dress and may choose to wear it, which he is aware of. A few weeks ago my mom gave me one of the parent albums from her wedding and I showed it to FH. He was like, 'Now I'm gonna know what your dress looks like!'

I laughed and told him it wasn't 100% that I'm wearing that dress. I don't think it matters if he sees the dress as long as he doesn't see me in it.

LIMusicTeacher Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:07 PM

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i am constantly on the computer looking at dresses and if he happens to peek over, I show him a whole bunch of dresses with the ones I like in the bunch. Without fail, he always says he doesn't like the dresses that I liked! He is hysterical. He has no clue about fashion. Then I asked him to go through a magazine and pick one out... oh my! It was hideous! I am lucky not to have him come shopping with me!

misswitty Posted: Aug 10, 2008 12:12 PM

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I tell FH everything, and when I don't he always manages to get it out of me somehow. This is the ONE thing I'm NOT telling. It's killing me, though! I use his computer all the time and I have to erase my web history so he can't find my dress - which, BTW, I look at at least 2x a day online!

Celeste617 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 02:18 PM

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I actually have my dress hanging in our room now but FH swears to me he won't peek! I was like 'you better not!' But he assures me that he doesn't care what it looks like, but more what I will look like in it and that he's sure it will be gorgeous

WinterGrl09 Posted: Aug 10, 2008 02:20 PM

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LOL i don't even wanna show most other people my dress... I guess i wanna wow people when i walk down the aisle.

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 12:29 AM

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Posted by WinterGrl09

LOL i don't even wanna show most other people my dress... I guess i wanna wow people when i walk down the aisle.

dito !!

flairforfashion Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:22 AM

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Haha, I am the same way. But I ordered my dress in January. It's been 7 months since I ordered it and if I held in the secret this long, it can def wait 'til the big day. What I did to kind of let it out with FH was show him the pics of all the bad dresses I tried on. I joke with him and say THIS IS IT! And he is like 'oh hun that is gorgeous!' I love it. I keep telling him all these lies. He is going to see a completely different dress on the day of!