am i over reacting? One of my friends really doesn't know how to handle alcohol..she'll drink to an oblivion every time we go out...to the point where she picks fights with people and spills her drinks all over everyone..last night she spilled red wine all over my fh's white shirt!! its ridiculous..im just afraid that this is a preview to the wedding..if she gets anything on my dress or ruins my wedding i don't think i could ever speak to her again! and on top of that i have friends who left my birthday early last night..which annoyed me also..sorry just venting
Mrs. V 2008
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Re: I can't stand my friends sometimes
Posted by bluegreen08
I'm sorry.... that *****
I could understand your friend drinking too much by mistake (you never really know how strong mixed drinks are unless you make them yourself). I've had 2 dirty martinis at one bar on a friend's birthday and was totally fine, but had 2 dirty martinis at a different bar on another occasion and....
If it's an every time thing it's a problem. Does your friend feel embarrassed at all? Maybe suggest she drink beer or wine instead? (less strong for the same volume of liquid, so ideally she'd get drunk slower). Also a better way to keep tabs on how much you are drinking.
You can also keep an eye on her or cut her off if needed, but you really shouldnt have to be her babysitter for the night...
I threw a potluck this summer that turned into a party and one of my coworkers got way too drunk. I don't know what he was thinking. We ended up pouring out his 'martini' and filling it with water instead. We didn't tell him, and he drank it + 'refills' for the rest of the night.
Good luck with your friend
Yep! this is almost everytime we go out! if it was a once a while deal i don't think i would really care..but this is everytime! and the sad thing was she was drinking wine all night! she just doesn't know when to stop...
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Posted by AndRecKy
hi bride to be--
i am sorry about your fh's shirt...that was not cool!!
i hope that you had a great birthday...im sorry that your friends left early...
i have been meaning to tell you, YOUR ENGAGEMENT PICTURES ARE SO BEAUTIFUL! you guys look great!! love brooklyn!!
and your getting married the day before me!!
yes i did have a good birthday! i just don't let it ruin my night! and thanks very much