I can't take this anymore

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Posted by JTsGal829

i say we put all our men together in a room and force them to watch a bridezilla marathon .. this way maybe they will come out realizing how lucky they are..lmaoo
argg men can seriously drive a girl to drink.. lol

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please FH watches it though he says he doesnt and when im watching it, he always winds up sitting and staying LOL

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by JTsGal829

i say we put all our men together in a room and force them to watch a bridezilla marathon .. this way maybe they will come out realizing how lucky they are..lmaoo
argg men can seriously drive a girl to drink.. lol

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please FH watches it though he says he doesnt and when im watching it, he always winds up sitting and staying LOL

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ha ha ha ha... my FH does that too!! One day i was watching Dawson's creek reruns ( i know..cheesy..but i can't help it.. i loved that show..lmao) and FH always says..change that ..i dont wanna watch your girly tv.. and then after awhile he started asking questions..then said 'don't u have some seasons on DVD'???? lmaoo

don't feel bad FH is like that sometimes! the only thing that makes me feel better is that when my cousin and her husband walked into their reception his mouth dropped open and he said 'omg i cant believe you planned this huge event all by yourself' so in my fantasy land FH is going to be so surprised and FLOORED by all of my planning.

It is funny that you posted this today . . . yesterday, FH got his passport in the mail and I only knew bc his mom told me when I called. SO the whole day i was SOOOO EXCITED about it. . .i run in the house singing a whole song about his passport and how happy I am that he got it - it even had a cute little passport dance. He takes the envelope out of my hands and he is like 'whatever, don't open it - i dont understand what the big deal is. . . it is a passport, you know what it is going to look like' and he totally made me crash from dancing/singing to sulking and he had no idea why!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

don't feel bad FH is like that sometimes! the only thing that makes me feel better is that when my cousin and her husband walked into their reception his mouth dropped open and he said 'omg i cant believe you planned this huge event all by yourself' so in my fantasy land FH is going to be so surprised and FLOORED by all of my planning.

It is funny that you posted this today . . . yesterday, FH got his passport in the mail and I only knew bc his mom told me when I called. SO the whole day i was SOOOO EXCITED about it. . .i run in the house singing a whole song about his passport and how happy I am that he got it - it even had a cute little passport dance. He takes the envelope out of my hands and he is like 'whatever, don't open it - i dont understand what the big deal is. . . it is a passport, you know what it is going to look like' and he totally made me crash from dancing/singing to sulking and he had no idea why!!

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Awwww, Im totally like you! haha, I get so excited and make little songs and dance around while FH is on his computer or playing Wii (like he is right now) and he doesnt even hear me. Then later I say oh remember when I made up that song, or remember the music from the ceremony quartet, etc and he is like you never did that. Ummm yeah I did, you were ignoring me.

Anyway, right now I am trying to have him help me with the STD's and he is playing Wii. I said just help me and he said, you pick the photos you want and Ill tell you yes or no. How bout you get your booty over here and pick them with me!

Sorry to hear about that. My FH is all about it maybe even more than me. Which is working my nerve. My brother when he was getting married could of cared less but everyone is different. That is kind of weird that he snaps at you just for asking him a question and being happy about getting married.

Ughh I know how you feel my hubby just doesn't get exciting for planning and everything is always 'whatever you want' its annoying. Sometimes I feel like lesbians are smart ones. Woman must be so much easier to deal with

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Posted by Cntthinkofone

Ughh I know how you feel my hubby just doesn't get exciting for planning and everything is always 'whatever you want' its annoying. Sometimes I feel like lesbians are smart ones. Woman must be so much easier to deal with

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My FH does that too.. 'I'm sure whatever you pick is fine.. you're good at this' ... but then he'll complain about something and say..'really, that one.. what about this'... and i'm like this is why i want you to look at stuff with me you fool.. now you have no right to complain..lmao!

Thanks so much girls for all of your responses! its nice to know so many of you feel the same way! it makes me feel better to know that im not alone! thanks again everyone for making me feel better!

awwwwww i am so sorry kristin guys just arent interested in so many of the details. Plus guys just act differently towards things than we do, dont take offense to it.

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

Thanks so much girls for all of your responses! its nice to know so many of you feel the same way! it makes me feel better to know that im not alone! thanks again everyone for making me feel better!

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anytime I'm glad my FHs stupidity is good for something... it can help other girls realize they aren't alone!! lmaooo

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Posted by JTsGal829

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

Thanks so much girls for all of your responses! its nice to know so many of you feel the same way! it makes me feel better to know that im not alone! thanks again everyone for making me feel better!

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anytime I'm glad my FHs stupidity is good for something... it can help other girls realize they aren't alone!! lmaooo

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lol good point!

aww I am sorry honey! FH is a man that explains it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont get all worked up give yourself a break and have some hot tea and relax

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Posted by Fall Bride 2008

aww I am sorry honey! FH is a man that explains it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont get all worked up give yourself a break and have some hot tea and relax

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thanks! and thats a good idea! I need some relaxation!

Awwww...I'm sorry Kristin!!!!!!!!! I don't know what's wrong with guys sometimes!!!! FH is like that too....he has his days where he is really into planning and coming up with ideas...then there are days where he doesn't even want to talk about wedding planning b/c he is so stressed out about work.
Don't feel bad...you know he loves you and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you or else he would have never given you that gorgeous ring!
Thank God for LIWeddings...at least we get excited about the little things!!!

FH is excited to get married but isn't as excited for the actual wedding. He's more excited for the HM and just the marriage afterwards which I guess can be a good thing too.

Guys aren't really going to be as excited as the details and things. Which is aggrevating because it's a lot of planning and work and it would be nice to get some help!

hey kristin---you are NOT alone--FH has done that to me as well--- i just think men have a hard time visualizing anything further than one month away--their brain can't handle it-- plus we have been planning our wedings since we were like 10--men probably think it can be done in two weeks. I understand it hurts and as the day draws much closer he will get excited--for the time being get the reciprocal excitement from the people you know will give it--MOH, BM, Family---hope this helps.... remember girl you are NOT alone--it's just the annoyance of men :)