I seriously am stressing out big time..It just seems like fh never wants anything to do with wedding planning and then yesterday i ask him whats in 349 days and he snaps at me and says some rude comment like 'why do you keep asking me this, you know the answer' I just can't take the fact that sometimes he does not show one ounce of excitement about any of it...we just had a big fight about it and all i can do is cry..Im sorry i just needed to vent
dangell427
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my FH acts like that too, it`s a man thing. it`s not that he doesn`t care they just don`t get all excited when then see anothe rday has dropped and you are getting closer....if anything that makes my FH dred it more. he doesn`t like to be the center of attention so rubbing it in how close it`s getting deffinatly pisses him off lol
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You are not alone. FH and I have the same 'fight' twice a week. We are starting to get everything going and to get any reaction out of him is a miracle (yet he will yell and high-five for 10 minutes when Alex Rodriquez hits a HR). They just don't get it like we do, but that doesn't mean they want to get married or have a part in it. I know it is hard, but try not to get too crazy about it
Mrs. V 2008
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thanks everyone!
Mrs.D08
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FH is the same way. He cares nothing about the wedding and it so frustrating
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The only Mother Fcuking thing that FH decided to care about was the color of his vest. I'd planned a whole fall wedding... brown dresses, fall flowers... and he decided he wants BLUE. JackA$$. But he didnt even know if it was necessary to have a DJ. Why cant we just play music? ARE YOU KIDDING? a$$.
Luvbsb4eva
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My FH is the same way... and the sad part is, he hasn't had to do anything at all since all the planning has been done while he's been home in Pittsburgh and while I've been in NY! The only thing he was involved in was picking out my e-ring and he came to NY to help pick out the reception hall, and he wasn't really much help with that either! He doesn't show any interest in any planning, and is no where near as excited as I am... to make matters worse, we can't even agree on where to go to live when we get married! We've basically agreed on staying in Pittsburgh, but he keeps trying to push me to move south, and I do not want to at all! And he wonders why I'm so stressed out all the time... clinical pharmacy rotations, night classes, work, wedding planning... and now that! errrggggghhhh....
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The only Mother Fcuking thing that FH decided to care about was the color of his vest. I'd planned a whole fall wedding... brown dresses, fall flowers... and he decided he wants BLUE. JackA$$. But he didnt even know if it was necessary to have a DJ. Why cant we just play music? ARE YOU KIDDING? a$$.
ok.. u made me laugh with the whole Jack@$$ thing.. sorry.. not laughing at ure situation...just the way u said it..
i can see my FH doing that too.. like the one freaking thing he wants will change my whole theme.. then i'd have to kick him in his teeth cause i've worked to hard!! lmao men are so ignorant to these sorts of things...everytime i see a guy who is into planning with his fiance i hit FH like see you moron.. he's nice.. ure an idiot!! lol
