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'I don't have to be a part of your BP'

ColliMac23 Posted:

'I don't have to be a part of your BP'

So FH's SIL is a piece of work!

She first told me she doesn't need to be a part of the Wedding she doesn't care

Expected us to pay for her and her daughter (FG) dresses

At my E-Party was overheard saying 'Why are all these people so dressed up? DOn't they know it's only an E-Party' (While showing up an hour late with Jeans and a tee on)

Told my Sisters that she is way to busy to help them with the Shower and Baccehlorette Party sorry

Now last night this was our convo:

Me: Hey Guys! If you aren't getting your hair and makeup done at my house just be there by 12 so we are all together and ready to go when the Videographer and Photographer are there

Her: What the hell are you talking about?

Me:For the Day of the Wedding

Her: Well what time is the Ceremony?

Me: We have to be at my house by 12 (In fear she will show up late or just skip my house all together)

Her: If your copping an attitude with me I suggest you loose it fast and I am not getting my Hair or makeup done it's too pricey

**** I am not mad I don't care if she shows up just done with it
justnicethings Posted:

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omg, I thought I had it bad.
sorry you have to deal with this
BlushandBashful Posted:

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WOW! How old is she????

FutureJOC Posted:

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Wow she sounds.... nice

Sorry you have to deal with this
ColliMac23 Posted:

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30?

ColliMac23 Posted:

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Posted by FutureJOC

Wow she sounds.... nice

Sorry you have to deal with this





I am just laughing at this point I have tried to be nice and sorry but the only people I care about is my Family and that We have an amazing day everyone else can go suck it
MarryingMyBFF1110 Posted:

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I;m sorry, her behavior is GROSS. I'd tell her to not be a part of it then, if that wouldn't cause problems with you and FH

VCanizalez Posted:

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OMG U KIDDIN ME!???!!!
Sorry chica!

I CANT BELIEVE IT! SO Bitchhhy!!!
AngnShaun Posted:

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yikes this chick is bananas... talk about copping an attitude... i would kick her out of the bp

evita2781 Posted:

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wow she sounds like a total evil wh0re - that's so not nice. all she has to do is say no thanks. damn

njoseph8 Posted:

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if your copping an attitude you better lose it fast? that right there would have set me off!!! so sorry you're dealing with this!

itbroi805 Posted:

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ew what a biatch!

ColliMac23 Posted:

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Posted by njoseph8

if your copping an attitude you better lose it fast? that right there would have set me off!!! so sorry you're dealing with this!




I tend to go calm to angry in 5 secs and loose it and say things that I shouldn't and honestly I just don't need the family drama but we were supposed to move into their apartment and I told FH I wasn't moving in
Moonmist09 Posted:

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wait, you said she is your FH's SIL? can he talk to his brother about this?
i would kill her with kindness and let her know that she does not want to be part of the day, then she doesn't have to be and thats it. no one can misconstrue anything in those emails as you doing or saying anything wrong
bebita0830 Posted:

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she said u have an attitude???? somebody needs to take a 2nd look in the mirror! headaches is the least u need in ur wedding, I'd soooo drop her from my BP, of course in a nice way so u don't go down to her level

rosatemp Posted:

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omg i'd tell her not to even come to the wedding ***..shes just a b!tch...i wouldnt even tolerate it idk thats me tho and im truly sorry you have to deal with her maybe your fh can talk to his brother about it?

Yankeeelove Posted:

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Wow I'm really sorry! Honestly if that was me, right after she made that last comment about copping an attitude I would have reached my breaking point and kicked her out of the wedding party, plain and simple. There's no way I would ever have a negative person like that play such a big role in my wedding day, and I'm sure your FH would agree that he wouldn't want someone to talk to you and treat you so disrespectfully. I'm really sorry

NikkiB0401 Posted:

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I think she needs a nice b!tch slap!

Yankeeelove Posted:

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One more thing, she knew exactly what you were talking about. I mean come on, why else would you be having a photographer and videographer come to your house! She's trying to upset you. Sorry again!
ColliMac23 Posted:

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Posted by rosatemp

omg i'd tell her not to even come to the wedding ***..shes just a b!tch...i wouldnt even tolerate it idk thats me tho and im truly sorry you have to deal with her maybe your fh can talk to his brother about it?



He wanted too so I told him no I will deal with it I am a big girl. So he went and talked to her anyway and she was like I wasn't rude to you your overreacting and so fourth.

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