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'I don't have to be a part of your BP'

Original post by ColliMac23

So FH's SIL is a piece of work!

She first told me she doesn't need to be a part of the Wedding she doesn't care

Expected us to pay for her and her daughter (FG) dresses

At my E-Party was overheard saying 'Why are all these people so dressed up? DOn't they know it's only an E-Party' (While showing up an hour late with Jeans and a tee on)

Told my Sisters that she is way to busy to help them with the Shower and Baccehlorette Party sorry

Now last night this was our convo:

Me: Hey Guys! If you aren't getting your hair and makeup done at my house just be there by 12 so we are all together and ready to go when the Videographer and Photographer are there

Her: What the hell are you talking about?

Me:For the Day of the Wedding

Her: Well what time is the Ceremony?

Me: We have to be at my house by 12 (In fear she will show up late or just skip my house all together)

Her: If your copping an attitude with me I suggest you loose it fast and I am not getting my Hair or makeup done it's too pricey

**** I am not mad I don't care if she shows up just done with it
JennylovesStephen Posted:

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OMG shes a B**** I would probably of lost it with her already

CristinD83 Posted:

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Wow! Maybe ur better off telling her not to be part of your BP. Are you or FH that close with her??? You dont need someone like that ruining ur day

JandS Posted:

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woah, she sounds awful. Sorry chica

nic2011 Posted:

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Posted by 0216bahama

wow.. she is an interesting one!



what a nice way to put it!!!!
SimHawk8 Posted:

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I'm sorry you have to deal with this. She seems awful.

jovigirl414 Posted:

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She sounds like a real character ... Let her show up whenever, and have the photographer put her at the end of every pic, but slowly zoom in enough so shes out of the pics!
LoveyDovey Posted:

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ugh, how horrible! sounds like someone is jealousssss!

whatever, she obviously isn't that important to you

I would leave the ENTIRE situation with her alone...I wouldnt bring up a thing to her...let it just pan out, maybe you will be lucky enough that she just won't involve herself at all and do you a favor

I would keep convos with her strictly about necessities...like that would be the LAST time id remind her what time to show up

I wouldnt remind her or ask her about her dress/fittings

let her do her own damage

sorry girl
smilesjc81 Posted:

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she is ......... so charming ...

ugh... I dont curse people out, but i would be so tempted to start for this girl LOL

your doing the right thing though... count to ten and walk away... dont give her any ammo against you.
be the bigger person and just ignore her.

trust me i'd want to hit her, but acting indifferently towards her may work better, she obviously is doing her best to piss you off
ColliMac23 Posted:

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At this point I am going to leave it alone but I already told him I am not having any other contact with her until after the Wedding because then I won't be as stressed out and I won't have to bite my tounge But now I don't want to move in there and we were supposed to yesterday I really want to move in with FH

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