'I don't have to be a part of your BP'

Original post by ColliMac23

Mar 01, 2011 11:26 AM

So FH's SIL is a piece of work!

She first told me she doesn't need to be a part of the Wedding she doesn't care

Expected us to pay for her and her daughter (FG) dresses

At my E-Party was overheard saying 'Why are all these people so dressed up? DOn't they know it's only an E-Party' (While showing up an hour late with Jeans and a tee on)

Told my Sisters that she is way to busy to help them with the Shower and Baccehlorette Party sorry

Now last night this was our convo:

Me: Hey Guys! If you aren't getting your hair and makeup done at my house just be there by 12 so we are all together and ready to go when the Videographer and Photographer are there

Her: What the hell are you talking about?

Me:For the Day of the Wedding

Her: Well what time is the Ceremony?

Me: We have to be at my house by 12 (In fear she will show up late or just skip my house all together)

Her: If your copping an attitude with me I suggest you loose it fast and I am not getting my Hair or makeup done it's too pricey

**** I am not mad I don't care if she shows up just done with it

njoseph8 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 11:50 AM

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Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by njoseph8

if your copping an attitude you better lose it fast? that right there would have set me off!!! so sorry you're dealing with this!

I tend to go calm to angry in 5 secs and loose it and say things that I shouldn't and honestly I just don't need the family drama but we were supposed to move into their apartment and I told FH I wasn't moving in

you were going to take over their appartment or move in with them?? do you have other options?!?!

AugustFeather Posted: Mar 01, 2011 11:55 AM

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WOW!!! Thats really rediculous!

Don't worry... if she doesn't show up for pictures... then she doesn't have to be in your album

ColliMac23 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 11:57 AM

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Move into their apartment and now thats a no go! I try so hard to be laidback because I get so angry a lot and it's unhealthy. I don't want to be the person who looses it all the time I want to be classy about things

AugustFeather Posted: Mar 01, 2011 11:57 AM

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Posted by NikkiB0401

I think she needs a nice b!tch slap!

ColliMac23 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 12:02 PM

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Posted by AugustFeather

Posted by NikkiB0401

I think she needs a nice b!tch slap!

rosatemp Posted: Mar 01, 2011 12:13 PM

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Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by rosatemp

omg i'd tell her not to even come to the wedding ***..shes just a b!tch...i wouldnt even tolerate it idk thats me tho and im truly sorry you have to deal with her maybe your fh can talk to his brother about it?

He wanted too so I told him no I will deal with it I am a big girl. So he went and talked to her anyway and she was like I wasn't rude to you your overreacting and so fourth.

eww she really needs to relax idk i do feel bad for ya maybe u can kindly tell her to step down

sorry hun

leesah85 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 12:31 PM

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Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by FutureJOC

Wow she sounds.... nice

Sorry you have to deal with this

I am just laughing at this point I have tried to be nice and sorry but the only people I care about is my Family and that We have an amazing day everyone else can go suck it

exactly this.

maybe she's jealous/bitter??

either way, not fair nor fun for you to deal with. EFF HER!

HSsweethearts Posted: Mar 01, 2011 01:05 PM

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Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by FutureJOC

Wow she sounds.... nice

Sorry you have to deal with this

I am just laughing at this point I have tried to be nice and sorry but the only people I care about is my Family and that We have an amazing day everyone else can go suck it

Good attitude. don't let this jealous bbbbbbbb ruin your day

spdy540 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 01:54 PM

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After the copying an attitude I would have lost it. I would have followed with something like well my BP has to be here at 12 but you could do me the honor of not appearing at all for the day of the wedding. But I know nobody needs family drama can fh say something

jgold910 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 01:57 PM

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Posted by spdy540

After the copying an attitude I would have lost it. I would have followed with something like well my BP has to be here at 12 but you could do me the honor of not appearing at all for the day of the wedding. But I know nobody needs family drama can fh say something

This is good!!!

Tromsugar2b Posted: Mar 01, 2011 01:58 PM

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what does FH say about this?!?!?!

ColliMac23 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 02:03 PM

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He is equally as mad but he still wants everyone to play nice

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted: Mar 01, 2011 02:05 PM

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you should uninvite her to the wedding and then see if she still doesn't care lol

futuremrso Posted: Mar 01, 2011 02:31 PM

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adelya21 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 02:52 PM

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oh wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww im speechless!! where was she raised a barn??

Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by FutureJOC

Wow she sounds.... nice

Sorry you have to deal with this

I am just laughing at this point I have tried to be nice and sorry but the only people I care about is my Family and that We have an amazing day everyone else can go suck it

merelynn10 Posted: Mar 01, 2011 03:11 PM

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she sounds so childish! I understand that FH wants everyone to play nice, but its hard to bite your tongue sometimes when people say such stupid things