I don't want to be....

Bridezilla, but my MOHs just send out the invitations for my bachorette party which is in another state and only gave people 2 weeks notice. I know for sure that 3/4 of the guest list will not be able to attend because of their families and jobs. They need more time to plan. I am a little upset about this and I feel bad that I am upset. The other thing is that they plan it without asking me for available dates and I have friends coming in that weekend.

What should I do? I don't want to seem like bridezilla but 2 weeks is not enough time for people to rearrange their schedules and I have friends coming in that weekend.

Also, people would have to pay to get to the other state and pay for their activities.

What should I do???????

Hi, date twin!! I somewhat know what you are going through. My bridal shower was planned a bit late. There was not much that I could do because it was supposed to be a suprise. I did figure the date out. I was still suprise though.

Is your bachelorette party a surprise or not? If not I would ask the bridal party who has and has not RSVPed. If many guests RSVPed I would not worry. If the RSVP is low I would ask if they could post phone it for a date that works with everyone.

You are not being and you don't have to be a bridezilla. You just want to know that plans are going smoothly. I hope that I helped you out.

~dancer and chef~
charlotte and michael