I feel like throwing in the wedding towel.....

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awww I am sorry you are feeling like this today - I get like that when I get stressed about the wedding... It will pass and then you will be all excited again...

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Re: I feel like throwing in the wedding towel.....

Aww it'll get better once you lock in a few vendors.
Planning a wedding is a lot more stressful then it is made out to be. I went through a down period a few months ago where I just wanted to elope! But now I have a better grasp on things.

Hang in there!!

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I have been feeling like that. I have to learn to please me and my FH rather than everone who wants this, that, and everything else to go their
way.

dancer

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I get like that too, if I did my DW as originally planned by FH and myself...I would be a married lady this year...but i guess everything happens for a reason.

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We all go through moments like this so don't worry it's absolutely normal. There's just times when things get so overwhelming that sometimes u start to ask yourself 'is all this really worth all the aggravation'? From what I've heard from past brides the answer always seems to be yes, it is worth it and you'll realize that on your wedding day when you're surronded by all the people u love. when i feel like u do right now that's what i think about and that's what gives me the strength to keep on going sometimes. Don't throw in the towel, just take a few days to relax and i'm sure you'll feel better.

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I know what you mean, sometimes I just want to cancel it all and buy a house right away! Then i think about not looking for adress and throwing away all my wedding mag's and i get really sad!!! We have a long time until 07!!!!!!

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I feel the same. This really isn't fun for me so far. I'm just having a lot of issues. I just want it to be about me and him, and so far it's about everything else. Sorry I don't have words of wisdom for ya, but I am sympathetic since I'm feeling the same way.

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I feel the same way sometimes. I get so stessed because of the money part of it. It's so expensive, and I really try not to go overboard with stuff. Sometimes I say to myself it's 5 hours of your life don't go crazy over colors, flowers, invites and everything else.

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Girl I have felt like throwing in the towel a few times since the insanity started, I got so frustrated I told FH we should just go to the justice of the peace and get it over with But thank God because He has really given me a peace about it lately and I'm sure your peace will come too

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Ive been feeling like this, but i think its just the stress of everything else! Just wait it out- the feeling will go away and you will be back in full wedding mode again!

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Thank you ladies for your kind words...glad to see I am NOT alone in feeling this way.
Love u all!!!

BTW: JazzyT.... i too would have been getting married this year in Barbados in July had I stuck to my DW plans.

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Cee, dont worry one year will go by in a flash...and you be so happy to have had a wedding of your dreams.

Hey maybe you guys can plan for a honeymoon baby!!!