It seems like no one cares about my wedding. My sister is complaining that she doesn't have time to plan my shower. She told me that we are so different because, if it was her wedding, she wouldn't care if she had one or not. I told her to just forget it. My mom doesn't have a clue when it comes to weddings, and all my friends are so far. I can't throw myself a shower, so i guess i'll just have to do without.
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Aw, I am so sorry sweetie! I felt the same way as you and even brought it up to my MOH...she made me feel so bad and I totally thought I was not having a shower. Lo and behold 2 days later I had the best surprise shower ever (and my being nosey almost ruined it! ) so I say that because it's possible they're just really good and are trying to surprise you!
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Maybe she's telling you this so that you'll be surprised??? She lets you think there is no planning going on, when really it's happening?
Don't feel so bad about not having anyone to talk to, we're all here for that!!! We all have each other to bounce ideas off of!!
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I think we are twins! My sister gave me two dates this past summer when she said she could have my shower knowing that I was going to be away both days! So.. no shower for me either. My mom doesn't seem to care much either, and it's always a huge bother if I ask her to give me advice about the wedding.
I'm so sorry that you are going through exactly what I am going through. Maybe we should throw a joint shower for ourselves!!!!
I know right. I feel like maybe i should throw myself one, but that would be silly. I'll throw u one, and u throw me one
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I am so sorry..I know what you mean. My mom is saying the date coincides with my stepfathers B-day and now she does not want to come in for the weekend. I want to cancel it because this is too much unneccesary stress. It is making me miserale.
I am so sorry but I understand about selfish people ruining the greatest time or your life. Sorry
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Awww I feel so bad!! Try to think concentrate on you and your FH ! Thats what I do when other people make it me feel bad during this whole planning time (and it happens often). When I asked one of my friends to be in my bridal party she basically said she ok but I cant do anything or attend anything. Just concentrate on your relationship and all the things that are exciting and going well! Keep your head up.
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070306
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We told my sister years ago that we didn't beleive in showers just to throw her off. She was soooo surprised. Hang in there ladies you never know.
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So sorry u're feeling down. I think most of us have felt some apathy from our close friends and family members at some pt during our planning. It'll get better I bet.
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I feel the same way sometimes - I know it isn't possible for people to be as excited about your wedding as you are, but you can't let that affect you! It will be a wonderful, special day for you and your FH regardless. If your sister is overwhelmed about planning your shower, offer to do some of the leg work - compile the guest list and addresses, price some reasonable locations, or suggest having it at home?!?!? Tell her that it really means a lot to you without starting a fight and she'll probably come around. Hope that helps
