I got in deep trouble last night

I got in DEEP doo-doo with FH last night!!! And it was because I wouldn't let him see what I was writing for a post on the board lol . No its really not funny, but he FLIPPED and was like 'whatcha hiding why can't I know?' so I read it to him and he was still like 'oh why can't I read it?? HUH whatcha hiding' and pulled the whole 'I can't trust you, blah blah blah, don't call me tomorrow' bs. Well I called him twice this morning lol.

Why are guys so freakin insecure??? I'm not a dummy, I think my FH is freakin hot and that there is no one out there better for me, but whats with the whole insecurity crap? Will they ever out grow it. BTW, this is the first REAL fight we had in a LONG time. Over LIW. which i still think is funny...

FH pulls this sometimes, he thinks I spend too much time on this site. He usually does this when he feels a bit neglected. I really don't think it's a trust issue, but maybe he wanted to spend some time with you...

What do you think?

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Posted by lori7570

FH pulls this sometimes, he thinks I spend too much time on this site. He usually does this when he feels a bit neglected. I really don't think it's a trust issue, but maybe he wanted to spend some time with you...

What do you think?

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Maybe. I know he's a little stressed with work, house hunting and the wedding. But he was soooooooooooooooo bad last night. It wasn't like I was talking to guys on facebook, which btw, I will NEVER get after what he pulled, I was talking to you girlies.

don't worry, he will come around. FH & I got into a tiff about my posting on here too a couple of months ago. so i just post when i am at work or when FH is not home.

i always complain how i don't have enough time in a day to do all i have to do so to spend time of here is counterproductive.

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Posted by lori7570

FH pulls this sometimes, he thinks I spend too much time on this site. He usually does this when he feels a bit neglected. I really don't think it's a trust issue, but maybe he wanted to spend some time with you...

What do you think?

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thats EXACTLY why fh hets all huffy about LIW, he doesnt get mad per say, but i know when he starts whining its time to get off and just cuddle on the couch with him.... i mean realistically we are on here, like A LOT, and i would be the same if FH was constantly on a site, not to say that i dont love you all!

yea, they think we're crazy for posting on here and then they want to look, what the heck, sometimes when I post FH would look, but would try to hide it. I think that is so funny that want to know what we're talking about.

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Posted by Sandradv121

sooooo how do I make it up to him lol.

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i had to spend this past weekend completely off LIW to show FH that i could focus just on him for once (usually i check it even for 5 minutes when hes here)

but he was over all weekend, and upset that the last time he was here i spent all night on, so i told him i wouldnt touch the computer the whole weekend, that we would spend it together!

p.s.- it S.U.C.K.E.D. but he was happy, and when i finally came on to check, we were on the phone, and he was like 'so, did u catch up w/LIW posts yet? sorry u had to miss the whole weekend, but it meant alot to me'

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

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Posted by Sandradv121

sooooo how do I make it up to him lol.

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i had to spend this past weekend completely off LIW to show FH that i could focus just on him for once (usually i check it even for 5 minutes when hes here)

but he was over all weekend, and upset that the last time he was here i spent all night on, so i told him i wouldnt touch the computer the whole weekend, that we would spend it together!

p.s.- it S.U.C.K.E.D. but he was happy, and when i finally came on to check, we were on the phone, and he was like 'so, did u catch up w/LIW posts yet? sorry u had to miss the whole weekend, but it meant alot to me'

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Thats going to be hard, I am addicted. But I'll do it. Besides its V-day weekend.

Maybe I'll make him brownies as a peace offering.

I find that a nice home cooked dinner and a little 'special snuggle time' always does the trick.

Well FH works two jobs, so when I first started posting on LIW he was never around. Then the days he had off that we were to spend time together, I began to be on LIW while he was there watching TV. FH never complained about me being on the computer.

But eventually he did mention that I was spending more time on LIW than with him. Since we don't get a lot of alone time, I realized that the times he is with me, NO COMPUTER!! It is only fair.

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Posted by Sandradv121

sooooo how do I make it up to him lol.

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Make him his favorite dinner.

Just an update... the fight is over... thank you God!!!
FH loves me again lol!!!

I got nervous there for a second lol. No really, FH came around after I called him to tell him about my convo with the DOC and than he slowly got nicer throughout the day. Still Mr.Cranky but hey, its better than being Mr.Nasty-don't-call-me-today.

He makes me want to hit my head on my desk sometimes I swear, but isn't that what love is all about ????

I spend a lot of time on the computer (no, seriously, a lot). So when FH is over, or when I'm on the phone with FH I check LIW, but I don't surf.

He's here to spend time with me, not to spend time with my laptop. I'd let him see whatever I posted though, but he never asks specifically what I'm talking about. Sometimes I'll say stuff like: 'Christine told me Main Maid Inn is closing' or 'Gaby's up for a part in a musical' rather than 'I was on LIW today and I read this thread about, and so and so wrote this, and then so and so wrote that.' If I make like it was a conversation it's easier for him to comprehend and not so difficult for me to explain...

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

I spend a lot of time on the computer (no, seriously, a lot). So when FH is over, or when I'm on the phone with FH I check LIW, but I don't surf.

He's here to spend time with me, not to spend time with my laptop. I'd let him see whatever I posted though, but he never asks specifically what I'm talking about. Sometimes I'll say stuff like: 'Christine told me Main Maid Inn is closing' or 'Gaby's up for a part in a musical' rather than 'I was on LIW today and I read this thread about, and so and so wrote this, and then so and so wrote that.' If I make like it was a conversation it's easier for him to comprehend and not so difficult for me to explain...

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That def. a good idea :)

But I must say this

I have learned my lesson well. Ladies when i am with Fh, I must neglect LIW. I am sorry.

No really I need to give FH some attention, I think he is stressed and needs some TLC. I feel bad.