I had the BM from hell...LONG

Bunnymonkey Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:34 AM

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I agree, she was definitly jealous of you. How horrendous! In the end, she really is only making herself miserable and trying to take anyone happy with her. Screw her. Do not patch things up, there is nothing TO patch up, she does not deserve a friend like you!

I may have missed this...how do you know her??

Congratulations on maintaining your own cool and not stooping to her level.

JimmysBride Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:36 AM

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What an EVIL WENCH!!!

suven Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:38 AM

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

I may have missed this...how do you know her??

She's my husband's cousin...

Happybride2005 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:42 AM

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Oh wow. If I had here in my bridal party, I would go crazy. Is she a family member of yours? On the happiest day of your life she made things really hard. Hope that she didn't ruin your day.

brideinapril Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:45 AM

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What a lunatic!!! I feel so bad for you - now you are actually family!!

April302005 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:45 AM

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I could totally see this happening to me on my wedding day. I definately have the BM from HELL and there is still 10 months to go....

aug04bride Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:46 AM

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She was clearly intent on sabotaging all the hard work you put into your day- in the end she's embarrassed herself.

There are just some people that have to try and ruin your joy.

Hopefully your niece understands that 'JILL' is just jealous, selfish doesn't take any of her crap personal.

ETA- I too people not looking out for my best interest involved in my wedding

Kriss2c Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:52 AM

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Congrats on your marriage!!!

I'd have a reservation made at the Hotel Bellevue for Jill. She needs one of those special rubber rooms.

CubanBride Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:52 AM

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Honestly, you should have removed her from the bridal party after the shower. If there is ANY inclination that anyone in my party is going to act that way, they will no longer be allowed to participate. What a horrible *****.

Stacey04 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 11:05 AM

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I really don't know what to say. Unbelievable that there are people like this

9.17.04bride Posted: Jun 16, 2004 11:33 AM

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OMG! What a witch! Makes me thank god that fh cousin stepped out. I am sorry you had to deal with that on your day.

Congrats on your wedding.

kgermano Posted: Jun 16, 2004 11:53 AM

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OMG..she is literally crazy. There seriously has to be something wrong with her. You are damn good to have been able to let everything roll off your back. That was definately the right thing and at least you still had a great day. Congrats and I am sorry about the kookoo girl. At least now you don't have to have anything to do with her.

lorsin Posted: Jun 16, 2004 12:51 PM

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Jeez, what a nightmare BM!!

It's good you rose above her childish behavior and still had a great day.

I probably would have kicked her out after the shower - family or not!!

patti08 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 12:59 PM

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She sounds like a jealous, petty, mean woman. I really hope she didn't ruin the memories of your day. I don't know what I'd do, I think I'd be expecting an apology but knowing I'd never get one.

You are a very kind and patient person to put up with her.

WeDidIt! Posted: Jun 16, 2004 01:01 PM

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I am speechless!

eogara Posted: Jun 16, 2004 01:07 PM

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She honestly sounds like there's something wrong with her! And her brother, etc didn't think she was acting odd when she tried to get them in the limo with them? She's BIZARRE. I'm sorry that you had to deal with this but I'm glad you didn't let it ruin your wedding!

ChristineC68 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 01:45 PM

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Posted by WeDidIt!

I am speechless!

Me too.

mskimmy98 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 03:05 PM

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I thought i had bridesmaid problems... god nothing in the world compares to that...

I feel so sorry for you!!!

Boop2704 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 04:27 PM

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OMG, I am so sorry. I really thought Jill was like 16. I was shocked to get to the bottom and see she is 34. I am so sorry. But glad you didn't let it ruin your day. I think your cousins behavior will make other family members think twice before inviting her to family functions in the future!! Congratulations!!