i hate 2/3 of my BP!

Girls, I am so sad.... I hate my friends and some people in my BP.... i don't usually vent on here, but this *****!

My sister (MOH) worked so hard to plan a bachelorette party for me. Turns out, 1 BM tells her this week, sorry, i can't get out of work. another had a family emergency (I understand) but it still *****...

and then my friends.... 1 says i have to go to a baby shower....that she planned for her brother's preggo girlfriend... how do you plan that when you KNEW the date of the bachelorette? and then the FSIL's step-father's aunt died so she's stuck babysitting her step-brother? Find a babysitter! then my cousin got 'finally' got tickets to mary poppins... 'Sorry,' she says...

I am so bummed about this... we started with like 10 people and now we are down to 3 people and me!!!! my sister asked if i wanted to invite friends from work, but i figured no... let's stick with the BP and my cousins... that would be enough.... i guess i was naive enough to think that the BMs would COME and help PLAN my bachelorette???!! shocking... (please note sarcasm!)

so it's just me, my sister, FSIL (who came all the way from Florida for this) 1 friend (not even in BP but loves me enough to come all the way from boston)... i guess i should just try and have fun with the people who are coming out... but i just feel bad... i always do everything for everyone else and the one night it was supposed to be about me, they all bail... and so many of them were so disrespectful of my sister... she didnt' tell 'til recently that some of them didn't reply to phone calls or e-mails... and ALL the people now NOT coming AGREED to this date 4 months ago!!!!!

sorry to vent... just sad and mad!!!!