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I hate !@#$%^ Murphy and his !@#$%^& Law!!!

vino440 Posted:

I hate !@#$%^ Murphy and his !@#$%^& Law!!!

What ever can go wrong will go wrong right? So far I'm getting married this Sunday and
1) I've had a priest die (not mine thank God), so the rehearsal has to be moved from Friday to Thursday, which of course is a problem for nearly everyone who already rearranged their life to be their on Friday.
2) My 2 cousins who are my BM originally wanted to do their own hair and are now asking me to see if my hair person can do their hair--whcih would make my house like a zoo with the extra people getting ready at my house
3) My aunt was supposed to bring my 2 cousins for their last fitting on Thursday and pick up their dresses, but can't now because of the rehearsal dinner and she can't do it tonight either.
4) the MOB and my aunt were supposed to get their hair dyed Thurs. and might have to have gray roots now
5) My new birth control pill is causing staining so I'll have a period the day of the wedding---so much for the wedding night!
6) I found 3 roaches in my new apartment and now my landlord and FI have been their every night trying to bomb the hell out of the place--I want to stay in a hotel now but my FI says 'no' the apt. will be fine
7) I'm not finished moving out of my room and into my lovely roach infested apt. so I'm living in complete chaos
8) oh yeah, and my photographer said he'd go to the groom's house before the church, but is now asking for more $ to do that and is worried about the extra time it tacks onto the day (1 1/2 hour more)--so we're trying to find a friend of the family who will take amateur pictures at the groom's house---which of course also messes up the entire timing of the day because we don't know yet if we're still going to have my photographer make the 2 stops and pay him the extra $ of if we can find someone else to do it.

HELP@!!!!!!
junebride! Posted:

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so sorry you're going through all this...just a few days before your DAY! But maybe it'll all go wrong now and your day itself will be perfect!
Try to take the list one by one and see if you can find a solution....
oh yeah, and my photographer said he'd go to the groom's house before the church, but is now asking for more $ to do that and is worried about the extra time it tacks onto the day (1 1/2 hour more)-- Is the start at the grooms house in your contract? If he said it it may have been written down!

Is there soemone else who can do your cousins hair? a beauty shop or maybe at soemone elses house?

Good luck! But don't stress...it'll work out!
johnsae Posted:

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sorry to hear, but Murphy's Law is a *****!

I don't think anyone gets through wedding planning easily though
vino440 Posted:

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Thanks ladies. I appreciate the kind words and advice. I guess I just needed to vent and what better place to vent than LIW, where other brides know exactly what you're going through.

iffer042373 Posted:

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Oh I am so sorry your going through this. You do expect somethings to go wrong but not all those things I am so so sorry I hope everything turns out alright

tanielle5k Posted:

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This bad stuff has got to end soon, hang in there!!
JCMsGirl05 Posted:

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Sounds like its been a rough time, but just calm down and take deep breaths...The day will be everything you want from it!

Bella Blu Posted:

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Sorry to hear about all the stuff you're going through.....try not to sweat the small stuff...it won't matter when you look back a year from now...enjoy one of the best days of your life as much as you can!!!! Good Luck!!!!!

SummerBride2005 Posted:

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I'm so sorry Hang in there, it'll all get better! Vent on if you need to
lilacwine Posted:

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I hope all of these issues are resolved tomorrow, so you can enjoy the RD, too.

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