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I HATE being a jealous possessive FREAK!

Original post by JessicaM.

My fh's bachelor party is the same Saturday night as mine. I found out the what and the where (we have a friend that owns a nice italian rest. in Park Slope...they are closing it down at 10:30 for a 'private party)

anyway, while I would NEVER tell fh anything about the party....I am freaking out just THINKING about some chick touching him all over...

it's so weird b/c for his 30th bday, I didn't care...but I just feel this is going to get RAUNCHIER....

I don't even think he'll do anything...I just HATE my overactive imagination!

I need something to poke out my mind's eye!
JessicaM. Posted:

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Posted by JessicaM.


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Posted by JessicaM.

guys come on...don't let me think I am THAT old...didn't every little girl in the 'hood sing that song....cirac 1985 LOL



I was in Pre-K in 1985...hehehehehehehe...



there is no emoticon that can adequately express how I feel right now! that hurts me! I was in 5th grade!



Why are you hurt booba??? Don't be upset...I'm the 'baby' of the crew remember...I was born in 1980..it's not my fault!



I'm just kidding...I don't mind being old...remember

I am 30 and FLIRTY and FUN! LOL

(Laurie, I think at 8 you are in 3rd grade...)
JPCP4806 Posted:

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Posted by JessicaM.


Posted by ChrissynRicky


Posted by JessicaM.

guys come on...don't let me think I am THAT old...didn't every little girl in the 'hood sing that song....cirac 1985 LOL



I was in Pre-K in 1985...hehehehehehehe...



there is no emoticon that can adequately express how I feel right now! that hurts me! I was in 5th grade!




I was 2.
itslaurie. Posted:

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Posted by JessicaM.

(Laurie, I think at 8 you are in 3rd grade...)



that would make sense. if you were in 5th cause I am 28.

and I really mind getting old. What's your secret.

JessicaM. Posted:

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Posted by JessicaM.

(Laurie, I think at 8 you are in 3rd grade...)



that would make sense. if you were in 5th cause I am 28.

and I really mind getting old. What's your secret.




chubby cheeks. fat faces never age LOL
MrsFelix Posted:

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First off. You guys crack me up!!!!

Jess - I know how you feel, you're not crazy. I had no problems before being 'engaged' now that he's planning his I know they're going to a strip club, but just the thought of another woman touching my man makes me want to SCRATCH her eyes out and it's not even her fault.

I agree with you about the whole it's not the same as a woman at a bar taking off her shirt. These strippers get paid to do this. My FH is staying in NY, which I'm happy about and I told him you can go to a 'nice' club not one of those sleazy ones. PLUS, he's always said, yeah for any amount of money they'll do anything BUT, my man says, I can get it at home for FREE, why the H*LL would I pay for it!!!! PLUS, he's not easily influenced by his friends, plus his friends are not sleazy that way. I guess all those factors help me.

The best thing for you is that yours is the same night which will keep your mind off of him at least for most of the night. And if all fails just remember HE LOVES YOU!!!
MrsFelix Posted:

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In 1985 I was in H.S.!!!
ChrissynRicky Posted:

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Posted by JessicaM.


Posted by itslaurie.


Posted by JessicaM.

(Laurie, I think at 8 you are in 3rd grade...)



that would make sense. if you were in 5th cause I am 28.

and I really mind getting old. What's your secret.




chubby cheeks. fat faces never age LOL



Oh yes...I have those features as well...
MrsWmson2be Posted:

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Posted by jilmadison

I did not have a problem with DH and his bachelor party, untill my brothers came home with belt marks and bite marks from the stripper. DH had very little marks, but I was furious. Biting??? That is disgusting and unsanitary.

Dancing Boobies is one thing, but keep your mouth off my guy!!



If my fiance came home with bite marks or belt marks on him, I'd call off the wedding (which is saying a lot, because I'd be willing to lose over $20K to be rid of a fiance that allowed other women to bite and whip him for fun).

FH already knows no strippers. I didn't mind that he couldn't contribute financially to the wedding, or that I have to help him pay back 40K worth of credit card debt he accrued since he was 18...but having other womens' breasts in his face and them dancing on his lap, biting or whipping him is where I draw the line!
chloeme2 Posted:

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I hate the way I get when I think about it . I feel so irrational.

itslaurie. Posted:

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Posted by leese

and every single girl who says that they don't feel the SLIGHTEST bit possesive and mad about it... lying! JMO! Once you go through it, you know!




I respectfully and whole heartedly disagree now, and cannot fathom that I will change my mind the day of the bachelor party.

we shall see!



Totally just remembered this 'classic' thread when I responded to Tricia's post about what I did in the days before my wedding.

And the end of story was that dh went to a strip club the night before our wedding day and I can honestly say (swear on Harry's bulge) that I was absolutely not possessive or mad about it! It was his first visit to a strip club, and he got many a lap dance bought for him.

In fact, I actually forgot about it until Tricia's post today.

But, more importantly I heart this thread... the good ole days. Le sigh...

JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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Posted by itslaurie.
Totally just remembered this 'classic' thread when I responded to Tricia's post about what I did in the days before my wedding.

And the end of story was that dh went to a strip club the night before our wedding day and I can honestly say (swear on Harry's bulge) that I was absolutely not possessive or mad about it! It was his first visit to a strip club, and he got many a lap dance bought for him.

In fact, I actually forgot about it until Tricia's post today.

But, more importantly I heart this thread... the good ole days. Le sigh...




I was just about get all 'this topic is 33 weeks old' on you!
itslaurie. Posted:

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I was just about get all 'this topic is 33 weeks old' on you!



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JessicaM. Posted:

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

I was just about get all 'this topic is 33 weeks old' on you!



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I am all for the bumpage of old threads...this one was fun. I remember those days...seems like forever ago.

in an extremely lame moment today, I searched for, and read, my own 'good bye' thread.

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