I HATE HER - UPDATED with story

Oh my f-in lord. what the f*ck is the deal?!?! I am so sorry, what a c*nt (sorry for my language but this crap makes me angry)
There was NO reason for her to respond to you in that way. You did nothing wrong at all. How dare she. Better off not having them there at all. ughhh this is why I hate people lol

FH was the BM in his cousins wedding a few months ago and his wife would email me asking me to remind jimmy to do this and ask him if he could do that...I always said 'SURE NO PROBLEM' i know jimmy is busy and/or he just forgot and its not much effort on my part to be like 'can you please do ____ for kevin?' or Laura called and asked if you could_____' and Jimmy said ok thanks for telling me..wow now that was hard work wasnt it?!?! ughh lol

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Posted by davenjess

you have no idea how much worse this has gotten...

I was chatting with a friend over email about fantasy football & commented, wow you won't believe an email i got from julie.

The friend didn't remember that this line was there & forwarded it to BOB....(totally innocently - really - she's NOT a drama queen).

The email i got back from BOB is rude, presumptious & he backed out of the bridal party.

Calling Dave now!

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I will wear a tux and be the other Best man....seriously you are to sweet to deal with this crapp

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Posted by DD628

Breathe, stretch, shake...

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Posted by davenjess

Here's the whole thing...

One of his BM - let's call him BOB.

Bob has been asked to be measured for his suit probably, let's be safe and call it 25 times. Every single time Dave has spoken to him on the phone (just about 1-2 times a week) - he has reminded him about it.

I have sent probably 6-9 emails asking them to be measured (to all the guys).

Today I called the suit place & found out that he & one other person are still not measured....so I email both guys & copy their wives. This was HER reply:

Why am I getting this?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
???????????????????????????????????????????
???????????????????????????????????????????
I'm not Bobs mother. He has his OWN email address and his OWN cell phone to be
contacted at. Bob's an adult and I treat him like one....not like a child.
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I KID YOU NOT LADIES - that was her reply to me!

this was my reply back:

and bob's email was on that list too. your email and valerie's email are on there for the same reason - as an fyi....
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This was her reply back:

I don't need an FYI. Bob is the ONLY one who needs to do this and the ONLY one who needed to be emailed. Again, he's an adult and I treat him like one.
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I probably should've left it alone at that point - but i couldn't.....and replied:

Apparently, I have hit a nerve & don't understand why or how.

Bob has been reminded about the suit measuring no less than 15 times by Dave. Every single time they are on the phone (and they are typically on the phone weekly), Dave reminds him.

He has been emailed about it no less than 6-7 times.

I apologize for copying you on the email thinking
maybe you could help out and remind him as well. It won't happen again.

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Wowwwww!!! I have to say, I commend you...I don't know if I would've had that much patience

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Posted by davenjess

you have no idea how much worse this has gotten...

I was chatting with a friend over email about fantasy football & commented, wow you won't believe an email i got from julie.

The friend didn't remember that this line was there & forwarded it to BOB....(totally innocently - really - she's NOT a drama queen).

The email i got back from BOB is rude, presumptious & he backed out of the bridal party.

Calling Dave now!

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I think that's actually a blessing! Are they even going to be at the wedding at this rate??

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by davenjess

you have no idea how much worse this has gotten...

I was chatting with a friend over email about fantasy football & commented, wow you won't believe an email i got from julie.

The friend didn't remember that this line was there & forwarded it to BOB....(totally innocently - really - she's NOT a drama queen).

The email i got back from BOB is rude, presumptious & he backed out of the bridal party.

Calling Dave now!

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I will wear a tux and be the other Best man....seriously you are to sweet to deal with this crapp

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I was just thinking that! Great 08 brides think alike.
Jess we all know you are the greatest, this nasty beast (AKA BOB's wife) is causing you serious unnecessary stress,.....I'll say it again, I will take her down if you give me the ok.....

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Posted by jeffamanda080808

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by davenjess

you have no idea how much worse this has gotten...

I was chatting with a friend over email about fantasy football & commented, wow you won't believe an email i got from julie.

The friend didn't remember that this line was there & forwarded it to BOB....(totally innocently - really - she's NOT a drama queen).

The email i got back from BOB is rude, presumptious & he backed out of the bridal party.

Calling Dave now!

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I will wear a tux and be the other Best man....seriously you are to sweet to deal with this crapp

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I was just thinking that! Great 08 brides think alike.
Jess we all know you are the greatest, this nasty beast (AKA BOB's wife) is causing you serious unnecessary stress,.....I'll say it again, I will take her down if you give me the ok.....

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Im so there...I will drive...and we will both wear tuxes...!!!

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by jeffamanda080808

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Posted by kellybean

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Posted by davenjess

you have no idea how much worse this has gotten...

I was chatting with a friend over email about fantasy football & commented, wow you won't believe an email i got from julie.

The friend didn't remember that this line was there & forwarded it to BOB....(totally innocently - really - she's NOT a drama queen).

The email i got back from BOB is rude, presumptious & he backed out of the bridal party.

Calling Dave now!

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I will wear a tux and be the other Best man....seriously you are to sweet to deal with this crapp

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I was just thinking that! Great 08 brides think alike.
Jess we all know you are the greatest, this nasty beast (AKA BOB's wife) is causing you serious unnecessary stress,.....I'll say it again, I will take her down if you give me the ok.....

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Im so there...I will drive...and we will both wear tuxes...!!!

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I'm about 3 seconds away from posting her address....

I just hung up with my friend, we'll call her ally & she feels soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad for forwarding the email. I told her if it was anyone else in the universe id've been like B I T C H and killed her - but she feels so bad now.....we'll see what happens..

She thinks that something is going on with Bob & his wife...and that this is just the icing...

I hope at your wedding .. you stab her with your cake cutter!

WOW, I just read throught this whole thing, and I am so sorry for what you are going through. Hopefully everything will work out

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Posted by davenjess

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Posted by kellybean

I def think I should kick her *** !!!!!!!

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If you're willing to come to Jersey - she lives down the shore - we could make a weekend out of it....

I'm shaking i'm so pissed off....she is INSANE...

Did I do anything wrong??? Sincerely...if i did - i'll suck it up and take it.....but i don't think i did!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Ok breathe! Dont let her get to you and ruin your day. There is obviously something wrong there. I think you did NOTHING wrong.

Uh oh..If Dave is friends w/ him, I'm sure he can smooth things over with BOB

and screw Julie ..she's still a biotch

thank you girls so much!!!

I spoke to Dave & then we to go lay down....my head was killing me. It really & truly takes a LOT to make me this angry.. I rarely get offended or angry...

He tried calling Bob and naturally, he didn't answer or call back. He completely sees that I did nothing wrong and thinks that they are COMPLETELY screwed up. We both think that there is something wrong in their relationship and they are looking for a scapegoat....

I simply cannot get over the fact that this woman is sooooooooooo insane....there is no other word for it - INSANE!!!!!!!

If U need to vent call me !!!! You were not wrong at all hun!!

oh my gosh.. is she kidding? how effin rude.