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I HATE MY MOTHER-IN-LAW!

mishjohn Posted:

I HATE MY MOTHER-IN-LAW!

SHE IS CAUSING SO MANY PROBLEMS!! her staying w/ me the night before thew wedding when HER son is staying at the hotel! W/ DOG! WHEN WE ALREADY HAVE A DOG OFOUR OUR OWN!! I DON'T KNOW HOW TO WORD THIS THE RIGHT WAY!! my mom and dad would never impose on us like that!1

1nicetouch Posted:

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I know the feeling honey
she make him choose all the time
like she doesn't have a husband or
four other kids
he's in the dog house now because of it
a true Monster in law
mishjohn Posted:

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so what ami suppose to do??

mRm2008 Posted:

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OMG what is her reasoning behind that??? I am so confused
Mrs Who Posted:

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I think maybe this is something you discuss with FH and let him handle the situation. You don't want to cause her to hate you in the process. That would make this whole thing much more stressful for everyone involved. Express your concern to him and hopefully he'll know how to handle her without offending anyone.
If he doesn't maybe your mother could be the one to put her foot down and say it's my daughter her wedding and she'll do what she wants. If she hates your mom it'll be a lot easier than her hating you. Good luck!
mishjohn Posted:

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HE JUST STICKS UP FOR HER!! he is staying at the hotel, and b/c she has a dog, I am suppose to tak ecare of it, when i have my own??/

Mrs Who Posted:

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Is she just that inconsiderate of your feelings? Sorry you have to go through this. Is this some sort of tradition for her? Why does she want to stay with you? I'm not saying that you're not great company, b/c I'm sure you are, but seriously what the hell is she thinking.

madseason Posted:

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Posted by mishjohn

HE JUST STICKS UP FOR HER!! he is staying at the hotel, and b/c she has a dog, I am suppose to tak ecare of it, when i have my own??/


can u remind me why she has to stay with u again??? im looking for ur other post..can u refresh my memory
PreshusSmurf Posted:

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i'm sorry but there is just NO way i would accept this if i were you. you need to put your foot down with your fh, at the very least her dog needs to go to a kennel for the weekend. and she needs to cough up the $$ to stay at a hotel (unless there is a hotel she can stay at that will accept the dog -- maybe the marriott residence inn in plainview?).

you need peace & quiet the night before the wedding, so you can get as much rest as possible.

madseason Posted:

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Posted by PreshusSmurf

i'm sorry but there is just NO way i would accept this if i were you. you need to put your foot down with your fh, at the very least her dog needs to go to a kennel for the weekend. and she needs to cough up the $$ to stay at a hotel (unless there is a hotel she can stay at that will accept the dog -- maybe the marriott residence inn in plainview?).

you need peace & quiet the night before the wedding, so you can get as much rest as possible.


true...or she can bunk up next to FH or he can get her a room by him...
PreshusSmurf Posted:

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Posted by madseason

Posted by PreshusSmurf

i'm sorry but there is just NO way i would accept this if i were you. you need to put your foot down with your fh, at the very least her dog needs to go to a kennel for the weekend. and she needs to cough up the $$ to stay at a hotel (unless there is a hotel she can stay at that will accept the dog -- maybe the marriott residence inn in plainview?).

you need peace & quiet the night before the wedding, so you can get as much rest as possible.


true...or she can bunk up next to FH or he can get her a room by him...



OR another idea: make your FH stay home with his mom & you stay at the hotel!!!!!!!!!!!!

but either way her dog goes to a kennel ... its too much chaos for either of you to deal with the night before the wedding.
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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Posted by PreshusSmurf

Posted by madseason

Posted by PreshusSmurf

i'm sorry but there is just NO way i would accept this if i were you. you need to put your foot down with your fh, at the very least her dog needs to go to a kennel for the weekend. and she needs to cough up the $$ to stay at a hotel (unless there is a hotel she can stay at that will accept the dog -- maybe the marriott residence inn in plainview?).

you need peace & quiet the night before the wedding, so you can get as much rest as possible.


true...or she can bunk up next to FH or he can get her a room by him...



OR another idea: make your FH stay home with his mom & you stay at the hotel!!!!!!!!!!!!

but either way her dog goes to a kennel ... its too much chaos for either of you to deal with the night before the wedding.


you should TOTALLY make FH stay home and you stay at the hotel...i agree!!

but i guess you probably want to get ready in your own place huh? i'm sorry, this really stinks. don't know what to tell you so here's a and i hope it works out!!
blaine08 Posted:

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if shes going to make u uncomfortable i would def say something. thats the last thing u need the day of! i hope everything works out

MrsK2008 Posted:

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Posted by mishjohn

HE JUST STICKS UP FOR HER!! he is staying at the hotel, and b/c she has a dog, I am suppose to tak ecare of it, when i have my own??/


thisd problem is between you and your FH, and your FH and his mother, not between you and his mother.

Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. If you are being reasonable, REALLY REASONABLE, he should back you up and be your man not her son.

If this fails miserably, you have to stand up for yourself!

You are only one woman and you can only take so much sh!t, especially from your FMIL or any other of his family members.

Tell me, if it was one of your family members inposing..........what would you do? Would you take it?
missK Posted:

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Posted by mishjohn

so what ami suppose to do??


Can you switch with FH ?? You go to the Hotel and let him stay with her. Make sure the hotel doesnt allow dogs
ooh I just read above. Sounds like he doesnt want to deal with her himself.

You have to talk to him. Set him straight cause you are getting them both for life. Nip this in the butt Now
LeslieMike Posted:

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Wow, we have a lot in common, maybe we need to go out for drinks and start a 'I have problems with FMIL' club!

mishjohn Posted:

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Posted by madseason

Posted by mishjohn

HE JUST STICKS UP FOR HER!! he is staying at the hotel, and b/c she has a dog, I am suppose to tak ecare of it, when i have my own??/


can u remind me why she has to stay with u again??? im looking for ur other post..can u refresh my memory


SHE LIVES IN FLORIDA AND ALWAYS EXPECTS TO STAY HERE W/ HER DOG THAT SHE TREATS LIKE A HUMAN, SHE HANDS FEED HIM!!it's sick!! and my fh gets mad at me when i say soemthing and they aren't even that close!! i don't get it myself!
mishjohn Posted:

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Posted by PreshusSmurf

i'm sorry but there is just NO way i would accept this if i were you. you need to put your foot down with your fh, at the very least her dog needs to go to a kennel for the weekend. and she needs to cough up the $$ to stay at a hotel (unless there is a hotel she can stay at that will accept the dog -- maybe the marriott residence inn in plainview?).

you need peace & quiet the night before the wedding, so you can get as much rest as possible.





that's exactly what i want!!
mishjohn Posted:

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Posted by PreshusSmurf

Posted by madseason

Posted by PreshusSmurf

i'm sorry but there is just NO way i would accept this if i were you. you need to put your foot down with your fh, at the very least her dog needs to go to a kennel for the weekend. and she needs to cough up the $$ to stay at a hotel (unless there is a hotel she can stay at that will accept the dog -- maybe the marriott residence inn in plainview?).

you need peace & quiet the night before the wedding, so you can get as much rest as possible.


true...or she can bunk up next to FH or he can get her a room by him...



OR another idea: make your FH stay home with his mom & you stay at the hotel!!!!!!!!!!!!

but either way her dog goes to a kennel ... its too much chaos for either of you to deal with the night before the wedding.


i want to stay home b/c we have a 5 yrold and a three year old between the both of us and i am staying w/ them IN MY HOUSE!! BY MYSELF!!
mishjohn Posted:

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Posted by MrsK2008

Posted by mishjohn

HE JUST STICKS UP FOR HER!! he is staying at the hotel, and b/c she has a dog, I am suppose to tak ecare of it, when i have my own??/


thisd problem is between you and your FH, and your FH and his mother, not between you and his mother.

Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. If you are being reasonable, REALLY REASONABLE, he should back you up and be your man not her son.

If this fails miserably, you have to stand up for yourself!

You are only one woman and you can only take so much sh!t, especially from your FMIL or any other of his family members.

Tell me, if it was one of your family members inposing..........what would you do? Would you take it?


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my family wouldnt do that, and yes i would put my foot down if they did!! my mom and dad gives us our privacy when it comes to certain thing!

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