I hate when.....

people tell what to do and what not to do about MY wedding, today FSIL when into FH room where we have all the stuff about the wedding location so we dont have any other option that to tell her and she start saying that I should not have a big BP (is not of her business is not like she is going to be in it anyways) and then we tell her that we are having a small wedding so a lot of people are going to be cut, and she is like 'oh I will help you pay for those other people' and I am like inside me, NOOOO b/c I am cutting them is b/c they are not that important for me and I dont think you can even afford to pay for one of those 'extras' that you want to add...RRRRRGGGHHHHHHH I hate when people tell me what to do..... Also on Sat I was at my job talking to my mom when boss/'uncle' got there and my mom tell him about the place where are planning to book and he is like ' ohh that place is kind of expensive had you look around to other places..blablabla' HELLOUUUUU I am not asking him or anybody for money to pay for my wedding so why you have to talk cra.... rghhh people
Sorry, but I have to vent...

we totally understand ....let it out!

I punch pillows it helps!