I hateeeeeeeee

mycrayon1 Posted: Oct 12, 2006 04:02 PM

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I know the feeling, when I tell people I have 7 BM and 9 GM they look at me like I'm crazy!
Let them think that so what!

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Oct 12, 2006 04:04 PM

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I have a relaly big bridal party too so i know the looks ur talking of! oh well i say Scr*w them and do what makesu happy.. u dont have to explain urself to anyone

Elise&Matt Posted: Oct 12, 2006 04:08 PM

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No worries..... I have 2 MOH as well and I get the same SO all in all I will have 6 girls plus FG and possible 4 guys ..It's all about who you want and that's that

octbride07 Posted: Oct 12, 2006 04:20 PM

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OHHH and on top of it, FH's little brother is the same age as my little sister!! So I want HIM up there also, along with the best man!! So both of my sisters as maid of honor, and his best friend and little brother as best men!
I think its great, I am so happy. And when I told my sister and his brother, I know they were thrilled. So I guess thats all that matters.
Thank you for your kind words, you guys made me feel SO much better!!

AlBaBride Posted: Oct 12, 2006 04:21 PM

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that is annoying! But there's nothing wrong with having your 2 sisters as your MOHs...My FH is having both of his brothers as his best men..

prettyprincess07 Posted: Oct 12, 2006 04:24 PM

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Why do you let peoples looks or thoughts upset you?

Your sisters are important to you and you've made the choice of imcorporating your little sister in the wedding the best way you felt to. That is your choice not anyone elses. So the next time someone looks at you funny. Tell them, I l don't quite understand your facial expression, are you the one signing the check? No! Then fix your damn face! Have a Nice Day- Walk away

portjeffbride Posted: Oct 13, 2006 12:46 AM

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it really is an odd part of human nature.... the second someone is getting married or having a kid, many people around them lose all tact and self-control..... I almost think they're antagonizing the happy couple on purpose, to kill some joy.....

Sigh... just brush it off. don't even think about it.... It's not worth getting irritated..... if you do, they've 'won'.... And most of all, have whom ever, and as large of a bridal party as you want!!!

CielitoK Posted: Oct 13, 2006 07:46 AM

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Your BP plans sound thoughtful and sweet!
Plus, it's your day - 's rule! - and you can do what pleases you

MnM52607 Posted: Oct 13, 2006 08:55 AM

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I think it is really nice of you to have both of your sisters. If I had more than 1 sister, I wouldn't be able to choose so I'd probably do the same thing you are.

octbride07 Posted: Oct 13, 2006 09:16 AM

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Posted by prettyprincess07

Why do you let peoples looks or thoughts upset you?

Your sisters are important to you and you've made the choice of imcorporating your little sister in the wedding the best way you felt to. That is your choice not anyone elses. So the next time someone looks at you funny. Tell them, I l don't quite understand your facial expression, are you the one signing the check? No! Then fix your damn face! Have a Nice Day- Walk away

Thats good! I have to remember that for next time!!

Mandyin2007 Posted: Oct 13, 2006 09:18 AM

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I have 9 BM and two MOH. I think it is wonderful and I felt like the more the merrier!

Mooshyboo Posted: Oct 13, 2006 10:34 AM

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I hear ya! I get the same and i only have 7 right now & I want to add 2 to 3 more but am afraid that it will be to big (to me the more the merrier) and i am also am afraid of not asking and regretting it!

Mooshyboo Posted: Oct 13, 2006 10:36 AM

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it is sooo frustrating when people say something! I hate it to!

TnOiOnL Posted: Oct 13, 2006 10:36 AM

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dont let anyone make u feel STUPID! that is NOT stupid! i think its a beautiful thing when brides have HUGE bridal parties bc it shows how loved they are and how many close people they have... its something to be PROUD of girl! I have 9 on each side and i LOVE telling people that!

JMM7876 Posted: Oct 13, 2006 02:29 PM

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People are nuts! I am having both sisters as maids of honor also! I thought iw as a great idea...everyone I told love the idea. Dont let them get to you...people should realize if you have nothing nice to say...dont say anything??!!!

FDWedding07 Posted: Oct 13, 2006 02:49 PM

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I went to a wedding over the summer that had 13 men and 12 woman. It was beautiful to see how many true friends and family the couple had. Its your day what ever makes you happy!!

Fall07Bride Posted: Oct 13, 2006 02:59 PM

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tell them to shut it!!

its your day and you can do whatever you want!

OrangeGrl Posted: Oct 13, 2006 02:59 PM

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Good for you!! Do what ever you want! I got crap for having 8 girls and I couldn't imagine having a wedding and not having all of them in it with me! YOU GO GIRL!