I have a messload of questions...

1) Went to Lord & Taylor on Friday to find WHITE SATIN shoes...UNSUCCESSFUL...they had Capparo's (which is what I want) but they were all Silver, Black, Gold, or CREME!!!!!! Where can I buy Capparo's in WHITE????

2) Do registry cards only go in Shower invitations or are they put in Wedding invitations as well?

3) Do I HAVE to use inner envelopes for everyone? I've addressed the invites as Mr. and Mrs. Joe Blog and they're the only ones invited, so I didn't want to include an inner envelope. However, when I invited Ms. Josephine Blogger, I would use the inner envelope to address: Ms. Blogger and Guest. Or, when I addressed the outter to Mrs. and Mrs. Joe Blog, I address the inner envelope as Mrs. and Mrs. Blog, Mikey, Sammy, and Catrina (the children)....is this okay?

4) I've found the ribbon I want to use w/my invitations, here's a pic - it's really hard to see, but it's a think silk organza in a light creme, that picks up the color of whatever it's background is. Should I have it vertically lined up inside where it would come through the front through slits at the top and bottom and then closed with a label? or....should I have it as it is in the picture below, coming through the sides, and closing in the front across with the label?




5) We're going for tuxedos this week. FI is going to be in white, Groomsmen in creme (to match the BM's) and then the Best Man in Gold. Is it okay to put the Dad's, Ushers, Jr. GM, and ring bearer in the gold as well, or should I choose a different color for them completely?

6) MOH is wearing the same dress in the same color as the BM's. How can we have her stand out? We're already going to get her a different bok in a different color and bigger than the other BM's...any other suggestions?

7) We have to get shawls for the BM's...b/c the church wants all the ladies shoulder's covered. Has anyone see some organza/sheer shawls around? Any color suggestions? Here's the dress in this color:



8) We're planning on inviting the Priest ONLY to the Rehersal Dinner that we're having at my house. Should we invite him to the Reception as well? The one extra person won't kill us, but we didn't know how he'd get there and back.

Okay, think I'm doing with questions for now!