I have a question about someone here.

What I Dont 'GET' and maybe somone can explain..is why the mystery? Allure...maybe you can tell us all who dont understand why there is such a question around who you are.
Thats my issue, not whether shes nice or a real bride, supportive , whatever..
For someone whos been around for soooo long...why not tell at least something about yourself? Doesnt make sense to me, and I guess In the end I dont care...but it's weird in my opinion.

I know someone else posted this, but I agree-
I see a cycle. Those on here awhile see every once in awhile someone posts this about Allure. If I remember correctly there was a time that she disclosed more info about herself and was constantly bashed- I really don't blame her for her 'mystery' now.

She has always been nice to me!

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Posted by holly231

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Posted by LisaW

The only reason controversy was started before was b/c she stood people up. Even did a no-show at an LIW girl's wedding after requesting an invitation when the girl was trying to meet a minimum.

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Posted by june262004

Notice how most of those people are no longer here.

Allure and few of the others are still here. So if anyone is copying.

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Nice dig...
Now who is starting controversy?

And as for other members, many have gotten married and don't post as often b/c they have moved on.

Allure is still here b/c, well, Allure will probably always be here.

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Very Well Put Lisa.

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I agree Lisa!!

Listen we all make choices as to what we want to put out there and don't want to say. Some of us choose to be more secretive. Just leave it at that.

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Posted by swags1016

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Posted by holly231

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Posted by LisaW

The only reason controversy was started before was b/c she stood people up. Even did a no-show at an LIW girl's wedding after requesting an invitation when the girl was trying to meet a minimum.

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Posted by june262004

Notice how most of those people are no longer here.

Allure and few of the others are still here. So if anyone is copying.

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Nice dig...
Now who is starting controversy?

And as for other members, many have gotten married and don't post as often b/c they have moved on.

Allure is still here b/c, well, Allure will probably always be here.

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Very Well Put Lisa.

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I agree Lisa!!

Listen we all make choices as to what we want to put out there and don't want to say. Some of us choose to be more secretive. Just leave it at that.

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i also agree. GET OVER IT!

some people choose to remain anonymous. actually, i am am one of them. we all have our reasons, so either accept it or forget about it.

I try to stay out of these threads as much as possible, but I really don't get the point of this one. I really don't see how anyone has the right to question another person on these boards. I don't think it is a pre-requisite when signing up that you have to answer to people who are nosy!!! Like so many have said in the past, this is a PUBLIC INTERNET FORUM, anyone can join, old, young, married, single, happy, sad, whatever their pleasure!!! Why single someone out???

ETA- If you want to know about her, FM her and ask, why create a thread about it??

I happen to be very happy that Allure is here...she has always been kind to my husband and I....and I appreciate her warm thoughts and her quirky sense of humor!

Please leave poor Allure alone.....

Lisa W what is your problem with me I have never hurt you in any way,you are just picking up old slack is all
Thanks for all the kind words and support to all that continue to defend me

you have got to be kidding me with this post... some people have too much time on their hands... where are the fun posts??????

DJ PILL- start something... Imiss going back and forth with you

OK, all of you...this thread is making me feel the need to tell you all the truth!
I am really a wizened 77 year old perv who gets jollies from watching young girls try on dresses. I feel I must come forward before I am caught.
I cannot help it -- this post/thread is too silly. Who cares if allure is a bride, an LIW person, or the tooth fairy. If she does something to attack, respond....but to start this weird sort of vibe is kind of strange. LOVE and PEACE.

THIS IS HYSTERICAL.....

I have to say that this has been the weirdest week on LIW.
With the new names created to say how people really feel...

IMO i think it is friggin cheesy of this poster to creat a fake name to say how she feels...PRETTY BOGUS IMO. You don't have the guts to say it for yourself so you create a name to make fun of someone.
PRETTY FRIGGIN PATHETIC...that you don't have the balls to speak your mind

And why not...so YOU don't look bad, so you can make someone else look bad
CHICKEN!

People are wierd here in general..allure is no exception!

But these fakie names...now that gets on my nerves...say what ya gotta say or don't bother CHICKEN

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Posted by marymoon

Oh please! I think it's funny when people do that. But I'm just saying some people DO create Sn's to come on here and stir it up. I have NO idea about allure though! If she's a fakie, she's done a pretty good job of holding on, and if she's not a fakie, she's been put through the mill a million times.

And yeah, people can definitely just come on here to stir the stuff for their own entertainment...I know I do it every day

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I AGREE!

LI WEDDINGS is a public forum...real bride or not, anyone should be allowed to post. Since I have been here, there has been I think, 3 threads about allure. I think it should stop.

I second the motion...more fun threads!!!!

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Posted by LisaW

The only reason controversy was started before was b/c she stood people up. Even did a no-show at an LIW girl's wedding after requesting an invitation when the girl was trying to meet a minimum.

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Posted by june262004

Notice how most of those people are no longer here.

Allure and few of the others are still here. So if anyone is copying.

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Nice dig...
Now who is starting controversy?

And as for other members, many have gotten married and don't post as often b/c they have moved on.

Allure is still here b/c, well, Allure will probably always be here.

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I was not saying this to hurt anyones feelings. Just making a statement of how silly this whole thing is. THIS IS THE INTRENET!!!!!!!!! Who care who Allure is. She stood someone up then just don't trust her but let it go. That was what last summer. Ya id be so P*ssed at her. But again This IS the Internet. I have also been here since 1/03 so its been sometime!

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Posted by skew

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Posted by holly231

I agree Lisa!!

Listen we all make choices as to what we want to put out there and don't want to say. Some of us choose to be more secretive. Just leave it at that.

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i also agree. GET OVER IT!

some people choose to remain anonymous. actually, i am am one of them. we all have our reasons, so either accept it or forget about it.

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EXACTLY... to be quite honest I am floored sometimes at how much information some people actually put out here.

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Posted by allure

Lisa W what is your problem with me I have never hurt you in any way,you are just picking up old slack is all

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Hey, I didn't start this thread. I was just explaining why there are some people who may be suspicious of you.

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Posted by LisaW

Hey, I didn't start this thread. I was just explaining why there are some people who may be suspicious of you.

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exactly Lisa. I don't know or care who Allure is but she tells a lot of different stories, and I'm not a big fan.

But I don't start threads about her - that just feeds her need for attention.

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Posted by Boop2704

Like so many have said in the past, this is a PUBLIC INTERNET FORUM,

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LOL the last time I said this... I got flamed for two days straight cause I expressed my opinion on this apparent 'public internet forum'.

I do agree with Oct2004Bride. If you want to critisize somebody... no need for a fake name. Don't be a chicken.


For instance... I can openly say (without hiding behind an alias) that Oct2004Bride is a bandwagon jumping, Hide behind the current best team in the city, egotistical closet Met fan.

No need for an alias. People may not agree with what you say.. but they will respect you more compared to hiding behind a fake name.

All I know about allure is hearsay. I have no idea why she's sucha mystery. But if she's just a real bride trying to help everyone, then we've put her through so much BS through the eyars it seems like

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Posted by DjPiLL

I do agree with Oct2004Bride. If you want to critisize somebody... no need for a fake name. Don't be a chicken.

For instance... I can openly say (without hiding behind an alias) that Oct2004Bride is a bandwagon jumping, Hide behind the current best team in the city, egotistical closet Met fan.

No need for an alias. People may not agree with what you say.. but they will respect you more compared to hiding behind a fake name.

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Yes i respect that you have they guts to say it open and honestly...

And in return i am confident in saying that DJPILL is an obnoxious, green-eye Met fan who's sole reason for hating/bashing the Yankees is because they have more money, better players, a better managent team etc. ets. etc
Ok yes i will say it just because they are just plain better and make the other NY major league team look ABSOLUTELY PATHETIC EVERY YEAR, whether they win a WS or not!

GO AHEAD FLAME ME IF YOU MUST...