I have a sitaution
Yesterday was my shower.... there was a friend who was a no show...
background info:
she is a college friend, she lives in delawere. in the past she has came to visit for weekends etc...so the distance is not an issue. she loves to drive.
b4 i was engaged.. She ASKED me who my MOH would be... she said it could be HER ( i wouldve never picked her - not THAT close, but close) blah blah
I felt bad ( she doesn't have many friends, lives with mom, kinds gets depressed easily), so after I was engaged i was going to ask her to be MOH (purely for her), I was also going to have my other friend as MOH as well.
After I got engaged I was calling her.. to aske her.. i left numerous messages, never called back, until like over a month later. when she called she never even asked about the wedding. I got the funky vibe and did not ask her to be MOH and thank GOD i didn't.
She basically dropped off the face of the earth, i figured she was depressed and honestly, she needs to deal with it and I didn''t want her to bring me down during this happy time in my life.
FF to e party in july, she speaks to me days b4 says she is coming, blah blah, then the day of while i was at my eparty i get a text saying she wasnot coming she had her period.![]()
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SHe never wrote, or called to ask how the party was.. nothing. i emailed her a few days later and said sorry you miseed it..it was great, no call back.
SHe called me about a month ago acting like evertyhing was fine she is so excited for my wedding.. blah, blah, I was a little cold but did talk to her for a while.
Yesterday, my mom told me she responded yes, and she never came. angain no call, text email nothing....
LAdies.. help what do I do now with the wedding??? 2x didnt show!!
all my friends are like cut her off!! that's it!!
background info:
she is a college friend, she lives in delawere. in the past she has came to visit for weekends etc...so the distance is not an issue. she loves to drive.
b4 i was engaged.. She ASKED me who my MOH would be... she said it could be HER ( i wouldve never picked her - not THAT close, but close) blah blah
I felt bad ( she doesn't have many friends, lives with mom, kinds gets depressed easily), so after I was engaged i was going to ask her to be MOH (purely for her), I was also going to have my other friend as MOH as well.
After I got engaged I was calling her.. to aske her.. i left numerous messages, never called back, until like over a month later. when she called she never even asked about the wedding. I got the funky vibe and did not ask her to be MOH and thank GOD i didn't.
She basically dropped off the face of the earth, i figured she was depressed and honestly, she needs to deal with it and I didn''t want her to bring me down during this happy time in my life.
FF to e party in july, she speaks to me days b4 says she is coming, blah blah, then the day of while i was at my eparty i get a text saying she wasnot coming she had her period.
SHe never wrote, or called to ask how the party was.. nothing. i emailed her a few days later and said sorry you miseed it..it was great, no call back.
SHe called me about a month ago acting like evertyhing was fine she is so excited for my wedding.. blah, blah, I was a little cold but did talk to her for a while.
Yesterday, my mom told me she responded yes, and she never came. angain no call, text email nothing....
LAdies.. help what do I do now with the wedding??? 2x didnt show!!
all my friends are like cut her off!! that's it!!
