What if your FH wants a 3 some with another girl? How would you react, feel, think etc??? I think my FH watches too much porn and thats how he bought the idea up of having another girl join us. Please post your thoughts and if you had or plan to have one.
ckleinismine
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BTW, no, I haven't had one, and I don't plan to. The last thing I need to do is involve another a$$ and open mine up for comparison.
wait- I didn't mean 'open mine up'...
wait.
, good thing you cleared that up, I was gonna say.....
NickandTara426
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I don't think FH would even bring it up. I would be pretty upset if he did. JMO. i would kill him .
bxbride
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I think its every guys fantasy whether they admit to it or not. I don't think there's anything wrong with him telling you. Its just a fantasy and its really up to each individual to make it reality. Don't feel bad though. When my FH and I talked about it, he admitted that it had crossed his mind. When I told him that I would do it for him he said he didn't want to share me with a man or woman. Would I have actually done it?.....hmmm, I'm not sure but I just wanted to know what his reaction would be.
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FH knows better than to ask for that. I would too kick him in the teeth..
The only 3 some he would get is him and his two hands
ckleinismine
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I think its every guys fantasy whether they admit to it or not. I don't think there's anything wrong with him telling you. Its just a fantasy and its really up to each individual to make it reality. Don't feel bad though. When my FH and I talked about it, he admitted that it had crossed his mind. When I told him that I would do it for him he said he didn't want to share me with a man or woman. Would I have actually done it?.....hmmm, I'm not sure but I just wanted to know what his reaction would be.
I gave him 'a taste of his own medicine' and said ok it would be fun and different and playing along and he said he wouldnt if it came down to actually happening. he said that would prob ruin our relationship and doesnt want anyone to come between us, so I was just checking to see if he was serious, he was just thinking about it so thats ok
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absolutely not!
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allegracristina
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No way!!!!
ckleinismine
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Ha. If he ever said that I would be like 'Ok, but only if we can do it with another guy, too.'
Bet that would stop the conversation real quick!
Thats what I told him and he didnt like it
ace730
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Men! They are so predictable.
Im a Pepper
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nope. end of story.
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Posted by ckleinismine
We were just talking about it yesterday. He said he was thinking about it but said if it came down to that point where it was to actually happen then he wouldnt do it. But is it bad for him to be thinking about it?
Nah, I think it's natural for men to think about stuff like that but it seems like, when it comes down to it, the only person he wants a sexual relationship with is you. I wouldn't worry
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OMG absolutely not. Not a shot in hell.
ditto that!
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Posted by Suzanner
BTW, no, I haven't had one, and I don't plan to. The last thing I need to do is involve another a$$ and open mine up for comparison.
wait- I didn't mean 'open mine up'...
wait.
MLAngelo
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He would never even ask. One he's not that kind of guy. Two he knows better. If he even asked I would probably call off the wedding.
gina409
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i would never i dont like to share
meli722
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Im sure my FH would want it,
BUT i would NEVER give him one,
nor would his dumb a** ask for one lol
my FH watches porn also here and there, but i know it isnt that bad that he comes to his fiance to ask for a threesome, was he actually serious about the question???
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no way ... someone already said this but if im not enough for you than we have a problem!!! buttt i know FH and he would never ever ask ... its just not in our code of conduct haha
LeeAnne
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not an f-in chance!
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Posted by Suzanner
I don't think it's that big of a deal!! Maybe it's just me, but honestly, I think they ALL think about it. Maybe your FH just feels comfortable enough in your relationship to mention it to you, and figured you'd understand he wasn't saying 'I want a harem of bit**es', but maybe 'hey, i've thought about this. is it crazy?'
I don't know your FH, but trust me. They all think of it. I really wouldn't think anything of it, unless he starts mentioning it all the time, and it becomes an issue.