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I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY

Original post by davenjess

First of all - i am sorry for anyone who isn't causing any issues on this site - as this is going to be a waste of your time to read.

When i first joined this site - it was a BLESSING in disguise. The ideas I got from all of you girls were priceless & i know full well that my wedding wouldn't have been half as wonderful if it weren't for our idea exchanges.

What this board has come to is quite simply a bunch of high school girls getting catty & that really, really upsets me. I used to come on this website all day, every day and it got me through some crappy work days. I come on now, maybe once a week and believe me, work is JUST as dead....but any time I come on there's a new 'drama thread' or someone calling someone out for something... It's sad.

We are all or should all be mature women, women who are getting married to our dream men and women who are here to help others. If you aren't interested in helping, then log the heck off & stop causing trouble.

I signed that thread to stay around until the last girl got married and I HATE the fact that i do NOT like coming on here anymore because of all this crap.

Can we all just take a chill pill or something(did i just use chill pill in a sentence?)...PLEASE. Bring this board back to what it was in its prime!!!!!

There - I said it.
Annoulak Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08

But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..


thank you saying that because i didn't want to from fear of stirring up drama
B22 Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08

Posted by jennandrolo

I think the wedding stress is hitting ALOT of girls and its just causing everyone to clash. Ive missed alot of the drama but you are right, I am noticing it happen everyday.

I think it su cks that you dont enjoy coming on here anymore but I think you still should and just ignore the bs thats continuing. Your a married lady now so your advice and tips are a huge help to us ladies.


But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..


we're bored.
Snowflake08 Posted:

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Posted by CJ831

Posted by Snowflake08

Unfortunately, this has been going on since we all joined - every now and again

and we've said it SO many times before

Put a lot of women in one place and what happens??

There are A LOT of women, from a lot of different backgrounds, raised a lot of different ways, and have different opinions and views on things in general

As someone else said, you cant 'hear' how someone is saying something and we all tend to read it with our own expression and things can get out of hand

Let's try to keep it what it should be - a place to exchange ideas!


Very well said!


thanks - it is true
it happened in the past
the 07 girls said it would happen
im sure it will happen with 09 and after that

new members, old members - it gets so silly
Ayne11 Posted:

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Thank you Jess! I've noticed the past couple of days tension has been running at an all time high? Is the moon full???? This is supposed to be a fun and lighthearted website, even make friendships with other women, (i.e. all the GTG's that have been formed through hundreds of posts.) If someone doesn't agree then that's their right, you are after all asking for opinions and advice.

Please ladies, save the drama for your mama and keep this an awesome place to come and post!!

Ayne11 Posted:

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Double Post

DNicholes Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08

But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..


after 12/20/08...you'll see

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by carolinep24

Posted by WinterBride08

Posted by jennandrolo

I think the wedding stress is hitting ALOT of girls and its just causing everyone to clash. Ive missed alot of the drama but you are right, I am noticing it happen everyday.

I think it su cks that you dont enjoy coming on here anymore but I think you still should and just ignore the bs thats continuing. Your a married lady now so your advice and tips are a huge help to us ladies.


But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..


we're bored.


I appreciate your honesty!
ant n tilde Posted:

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i am valiantly sticking around for the few and far between that i actually like on here LOL it gets harder by the day though so i understand where you are coming from
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by carolinep24

Posted by WinterBride08

Posted by jennandrolo

I think the wedding stress is hitting ALOT of girls and its just causing everyone to clash. Ive missed alot of the drama but you are right, I am noticing it happen everyday.

I think it su cks that you dont enjoy coming on here anymore but I think you still should and just ignore the bs thats continuing. Your a married lady now so your advice and tips are a huge help to us ladies.


But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..


we're bored.


I appreciate your honesty!
ant n tilde Posted:

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i am valiantly sticking around for the few and far between that i actually like on here LOL it gets harder by the day though so i understand where you are coming from
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08
But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..



we're bored....bitter old dried up hags.

my husband needs a shucker to handle my clam












anneandchris Posted:

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Jess you are missed around here!!!!!!!

Toucan311 Posted:

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Actually, I'm a little confused b/c it doesnt seem like there's much drama going on here lately? But maybe I just missed it.

MCA1180 Posted:

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the drama keeps this boring board entertaining, otherwise we'd all be asleep... like the poster with the popcorn icon (which should sooo be the poster child for these boards) sometimes this petty foolish drama is a fun distraction from cake toppers and registries.

sorry but there's only so much pictures of bok's, dresses, petal cones, and programs i can stomach after a while...

and honestly, we're all adults here... are you really gonna cry yourself to sleep because some random little person in your computer that you don't know from a hole in the wall thinks your trashy because you kicked off your shoes and danced the night away at your wedding??? i mean seriously!!!

sorry just my opinion... you can take it for what it is
Ayne11 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Actually, I'm a little confused b/c it doesnt seem like there's much drama going on here lately? But maybe I just missed it.


One is brewing at the April's Fools post.... I could be wrong though, I don't want to be labeled a Drama Queen
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Actually, I'm a little confused b/c it doesnt seem like there's much drama going on here lately? But maybe I just missed it.


Heather, didn't you see the barefoot vs. shoes vs. slippers thread
jennandrolo Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08

Posted by jennandrolo

I think the wedding stress is hitting ALOT of girls and its just causing everyone to clash. Ive missed alot of the drama but you are right, I am noticing it happen everyday.

I think it su cks that you dont enjoy coming on here anymore but I think you still should and just ignore the bs thats continuing. Your a married lady now so your advice and tips are a huge help to us ladies.


But what about those that are far past the stress of planning a wedding, what's their excuse? just something i've been wondering for a while..


yea but i think shes mainly talking about this board where most of us havent gotten married yet. this board is really the only one with ALOT of drama lately.
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08

Posted by Mimacat

Actually, I'm a little confused b/c it doesnt seem like there's much drama going on here lately? But maybe I just missed it.


Heather, didn't you see the barefoot vs. shoes vs. slippers thread


No!! I missed it!! Damn!
Ayne11 Posted:

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Posted by WinterBride08

Posted by Mimacat

Actually, I'm a little confused b/c it doesnt seem like there's much drama going on here lately? But maybe I just missed it.


Heather, didn't you see the barefoot vs. shoes vs. slippers thread


Over 200 posts and over 3K views. It's now been changed to 'Wrong Turn' Grab a glass of wine and enjoy. It's probably going to take about an hour to get through the 8 or 9 pages.
jennandrolo Posted:

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Posted by Ayne11

Posted by Mimacat

Actually, I'm a little confused b/c it doesnt seem like there's much drama going on here lately? But maybe I just missed it.


One is brewing at the April's Fools post.... I could be wrong though, I don't want to be labeled a Drama Queen


threads that talk about drama in other threads ALWAYS lead to more drama

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