I haven no clue

babygirl71777 Posted: Sep 04, 2006 11:34 AM

I haven no clue

for your RH dinner who is suppost to go?? Can you invite anyone? Is there a limit? I thiught it was only the bridal party, There guest they would be bring, mothers fathers, grandparents, brothers, sister. Am I write?? Cause I have aunts and uncles that will be here from out of town and there children(who are 23 and 25) are in the bridal party. should they come to???

AlmostMrsKelly Posted: Sep 04, 2006 11:46 AM

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technically, it's just for whomever is in the wedding, parents and immediate family. however, it is a nice gesture to invite OOT guests to the dinner, being that they came into town for your wedding. my 2 17-year old cousins are invited to ours because they are flying in from vegas for the wedding and staying with my parents. i asked FH's mom if she wanted to invite any of their OOT guests, being that she is paying for the dinner, but she said no. also, i am only inviting dates of BP to the RD if it is a very significant other.

LandsEnd06 Posted: Sep 04, 2006 11:51 AM

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Basically same here. We are inviting the bridal party (and their children since it's my FH nieces/nephwes), readers, and anyone else that is involved in the church rehearsal. We aren't inviting all the OOT guests because there are a lot.

Ours is pretty small only about 30 people.

babygirl71777 Posted: Sep 04, 2006 12:42 PM

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thanks for the info. I feel a lot better now knowing who to invite! thanks ladies. good luck to you

snydl40 Posted: Sep 04, 2006 01:18 PM

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I agree Tara-usually it is just BP. But OOT guests should be welcome to come. I would try and stick to more family though. Otherwise you may have some huge RD.