regarding his bachlor party. I had told him AND his best man that I didnt care if they went to strip clubs but I dont not under any circumstances want strippers in his hotel room (AC). They both agreed. I get a call from John about a half hour ago and he tells me 'Dont flip out, but I just found out that BM hired 2 strippers for the room'
I sat here for about a minute while my face turned 3 shades of red and then let loose with some of the nastiest words I have ever said.
I told him (well yelled) that I am not mad at him but I'm PI$$ED at BM for not respecting my wishes even after HE promised me. FH is really mad at me now.
A little background on BM, loves to go to strip clubs weekly, will spend all of his money on lap dances and walk around broke, he has a girlfriend but leaves her to go to strip clubs, he told a story of how he went to a bachlor party for a friend of his and how he did all this nasty s#&t with the strippers and this was the basis for me asking him not to do this.
I called BM and told him he was an a$$hole for not respecting my wishes and for putting my FH in a prediciment that he shouldnt be in.
Am I wrong for going off like that? I mean girls in a club with bouncers all around are different, girls in a room.....pay them a little more and you get a whole lot more...according to BM's own words.
sanmik
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Well I would be mad for the simple fact that you didn't limit strippers, just not in the room which is completely fair. No you're not wrong, but his BM is an as*.
2003wedding.
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that bm is sooo disrespectful..i was so mad reading your post--he's an a s s ....i have been warning fi since we got engaged NO STRIPPERS!---what is the point of them--dirty and usually have no teeth anyway!ha!....i don't even want him to go to a strip club for his bachelor party----what does your bm girlfriend think of his lve for strippers?
Sunny
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Just thought I'd add- I HATE STRIPPERS and STRIP CLUBS!!!
LnP2003
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stace.... if i could tell you what pete says about strippers and what he actually does to them when he is forced to go see them - yes - he is forced. you would get sick.... he's such a rude boy! anyway, i'm glad that john is so respectful of you. there comes a point in your life when you realize that you don't need stuff like that. personally, neither pete or i want anything to do with any kind of strippers the night of our BP! if you need anything honey, FM me!
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I wouldn't be angry with FH. I would be angry with the BM for not respecting your wishes. Your FH was honest and told you as soon as he found out which says alot. I think the BM was very out of line to get strippers when you specifically told him NO.
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Sorry, but I would really let the Best Man have it....
He is supposed to be one of your FH's best friends, and he is intentionally doing something that he knows will cause a fight between the two of you, since you clearly expressed your feelings about this toward him. I think BMs that do this sometimes need to be reevaluated as to their importance in the wedding party.
