i just need to vent...
sorry its so long, its been bothering me since saturday. my cousin Summer really annoys me. Let me describe my cousin, she is the money is no object, the more the money something is, the better the product, nose in the air, very stuck up and thinks she doesnt need you, you need her. She got engaged last year and invited my aunt and my other uncle and not my parents and i because her father and my mother dont get along. so she just didnt invite us.
so saturday night i had my bridal party gtg and my cousin toni-ann (TA) and I were talking privatly. she said to me 'i am really honored you asked me to be in your wedding party. I know our family has some issues, but I am really honored you asked me out of everyone in the family to stand with you on your wedding day.' I cried. She continued with 'at Summers e-party and this is why i am so mad at her, she gets up in front of everyone and makes this whole announcement how she is so happy to be getting married and have everyone there with her and there is one more person she wants to ask as a bridesmaid. this cousin means so much to me and we've been through so much and i would truely be honored to have Ray's cousin as a bridesmaid' i didnt know what to say. TA continues to tell me that her entire bridal party is all her friends and 2 cousins from her mothers side of the family. she said her feelings were truely hurt. I dont blame her.
she then continues to tell me about the hall my cousin is having her reception and the food and TA told me i really dont want to go and if i do i am hitting burger king before i go.
I think it just annoys me how aragunt (sp) my cousin Summer is and how she ignores this side of the family. I am really glad I am not invited to her wedding.
I told my cousin Toni-ann, believe me my wedding will be 110% better and I am really happy to have you as my friend, cousin and a bridesmaid.
It just really bothers me how my other cousin summer can not think for herself (meaning even though our families are having problems she was told to not invite my parents or I and she didnt), and is so aragunt.
After saturday night, i realized how lucky i am to have those girls be apart of my life, and how i feel i really made a great decision in asking the girls i asked.
sorry so long, it has been bothering me since saturday and FI is sick of hearing me complain.
so saturday night i had my bridal party gtg and my cousin toni-ann (TA) and I were talking privatly. she said to me 'i am really honored you asked me to be in your wedding party. I know our family has some issues, but I am really honored you asked me out of everyone in the family to stand with you on your wedding day.' I cried. She continued with 'at Summers e-party and this is why i am so mad at her, she gets up in front of everyone and makes this whole announcement how she is so happy to be getting married and have everyone there with her and there is one more person she wants to ask as a bridesmaid. this cousin means so much to me and we've been through so much and i would truely be honored to have Ray's cousin as a bridesmaid' i didnt know what to say. TA continues to tell me that her entire bridal party is all her friends and 2 cousins from her mothers side of the family. she said her feelings were truely hurt. I dont blame her.
she then continues to tell me about the hall my cousin is having her reception and the food and TA told me i really dont want to go and if i do i am hitting burger king before i go.
I think it just annoys me how aragunt (sp) my cousin Summer is and how she ignores this side of the family. I am really glad I am not invited to her wedding.
I told my cousin Toni-ann, believe me my wedding will be 110% better and I am really happy to have you as my friend, cousin and a bridesmaid.
It just really bothers me how my other cousin summer can not think for herself (meaning even though our families are having problems she was told to not invite my parents or I and she didnt), and is so aragunt.
After saturday night, i realized how lucky i am to have those girls be apart of my life, and how i feel i really made a great decision in asking the girls i asked.
sorry so long, it has been bothering me since saturday and FI is sick of hearing me complain.
