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I'm getting really freaked out....

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:06 PM+

prncssrachel MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 11213 WEDDING DATE: Jul 03, 2005 WEDDING LOCATION: Stewart Manor Country Club

Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:06 PM

I'm getting really freaked out....

Usually JT calls me a million times a day for one reason or another and I haven't heard from him since 730 this morning and he's not home and he's not answering his cell phone. I'm not worried that he is out doing something he shouldn't be, I'm more worried that something may have happened to him. He doesn't know anyone in MA, and I'm just freaking. He's NEVER EVER done this where he hasn't called. NEVER. He usually calls me just to tell me he got home ok, or whatever. He calls when he's sees something that catches his attention. He calls when he needs help deciding what color shoes to buy. The point being, the boy calls me ALL day about EVERYTHING. And now I have not heard from him all day long and I'm FREAKING.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:15 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:15 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

I'm sorry Rach! Being the worrier that I am, I'm sure I'd be panicked too. But remember, that sometimes men lose their brains, leave them somewhere, whatever, and I'm sure he's going about his merry day without thinking that you may be home worrying

Please let us know when you hear from him, and tell him I said to never do this again!!!

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:20 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:20 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

But he's never done this in THREE years. NEVER. EVER.

I need to relax, I'm panicking.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:21 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:21 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

OK, what can I do to make you feel better...take your mind off of it? The Newleyweds are on soon! Jessica's stupidity should make you smile!!

(Just trying to make you happy. I'd feel the same way you do

)

allure Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:21 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:21 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Relax im sure your phone will ring very soon and all your questions will be answered

Keep The Faith

kaangel217 Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:22 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:22 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Try not to worry too much. I'm sure that hes fine like 2nd time said boys sometimes have major brain issues. I would be really nervous too but I'm sure hes ok.

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:24 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:24 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Ok, to put into perspective how ODD it is that he hasn't called, my mother was giving me her credit card before and telling me to book a ferry and leave to go up there. And she was serious. He doesn't just get caught up in his day like that. It doesn't happen with him. Thanks though girls. I feel like I'm going to throw up.

allure Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:25 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:25 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Seriously calm down

There is an explanation for this
You are in my thoughts

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:26 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:26 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Thank you. Ok, I'm trying to calm down. I'm sorry I'm such a freak! I definitely have a hard time controling my anxiety.

endlessluv429 Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:27 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:27 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

omg-i HATE that feeling--i do that to myself ALL the time when I cant' get in touch with FH who always calls me as well, in part because he knows how i get...but in the end he always calls and is always ok--whether he couldn't hear his phone ringing or he left in the car or the battery died or he just plain lost track of time. i'm sure he is ok-please let us know and I will pray that you can relax a little--i know how you feel--

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:28 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:28 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:29 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:29 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Believe me, I've done the same thing. It's a terrible feeling. You know where I am if you want to talk. PLease keep us posted!!

Love ya

Latina511 Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:30 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:30 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

I am so sorry and I hope he calls soon, I panick also sometimes. first you need to calm down and wait to see what happens. If he doesn't call you by tomorrow then I would start worrying. I hope he calls you soon.

palebride Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:31 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:31 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

did he call?
i'm sorry about this!!!

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:33 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:33 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

He still has not called

anna Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:35 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:35 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Rachel !

Please try to stay calm. I know its easier said than done.

Big hugs sweetie. We're here for you.

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:36 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:36 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Thank you

holly231 Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:40 PM+

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Posted: Sep 23, 2003 10:40 PM

Re: I'm getting really freaked out....

Rach, if it was not so late, I would get your directions to your place and drive by there to give him a slap in the head and tell him to call you!!

Dan has done this to me 1 time before----he was asleep...just fell asleep.....but I panicked all night and could not go to sleep without finally hearing from him...I am a big time panicker!!