I'm going to kill FH

If he says relax everything's done to me one more time

Um no it's not dear Fiancé you have no clue what's going on in my brain so zip it!! Trying so hard not to yell at him right now. Men don't realize how lucky they have it. FH biggest concern is his custom fitted shirt I just told him for the next 10 days I don't want to hear stop, relax, or calm down at all just nod and smile...ok rant over!!

I'm going to kill FH - Long Island Weddings

Haha they totally don't get it at all. They have no idea what we do.

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2016er crashing because I literally just laughed out loud. You sound exactly like me! In what alternate universe do the words 'relax' or 'calm down' actually make a woman do those things?! Boys.

I'm going to kill FH - Long Island Weddings

lol awe... I dont think they would be able to handle the pressure. My FH says that to me all the time, and when i say well you should be helping or anything like that he responds 'but you like doing this kind of stuff' ugh woman never get real credit...

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Hahahahahaha this cracked me up too! I tell my FHall the time, women's brains operate like they have 30 internet tabs open at all times. He doesn't understand how I can worry about so many things at one time. Men!

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totally hear ya!!

i had a mini breakdown last week (not just a bout wedding stuff) just stressed over some things. and he finally 'got' it.

so when i was stuffing envelopes the other day, he said so kindly, 'babe, do you want me to help you with any of that?'

i laughed. obviously i wasnt going to let him help lol! but i told him how much i appreciated that he offered.

they have no clue!

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Omg, exactly. Just nod and smile. Lol!! They don't get it.

I'm going to kill FH - Long Island Weddings

Hahaha fh tells me the same. He's starting to understand better lol but I tell him to zip it and relax when his car (which is his baby) makes a little noise! - it's brand new he is so paranoid!!!! Lol payback!

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Posted by Caity828

Hahahahahaha this cracked me up too! I tell my FHall the time, women's brains operate like they have 30 internet tabs open at all times. He doesn't understand how I can worry about so many things at one time. Men!

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OMG I never thought about it like that! It's so true!!! I don't understand how they can NOT worry about all the details of the wedding. Like how do they think it all comes together??? I'm always telling my FW 'This is your day too you know'.

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Posted by MelLynn

lol awe... I dont think they would be able to handle the pressure. My FH says that to me all the time, and when i say well you should be helping or anything like that he responds 'but you like doing this kind of stuff' ugh woman never get real credit...

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Haha I've heard this too! Just because I watch wedding shows, I must enjoy all of this stress haha

I'm going to kill FH - Long Island Weddings

Omg yesssss lol... FH loves that too 'everything is done!' Or for example, pickingvceremony times... 'We'll worry about that when the time comes' I'm like ummm, no we have to worry about this now bc I need to create and order invitations !!! They don't get it ughhhh lol

I'm going to kill FH - Long Island Weddings

We have 51 days left and he keeps telling me, 'oh we'll figure it out.' I'm like if we have to order something online it might take a week or so. We don't have time to figure it out anymore! I think the stress has officially kicked in. I'm going to stop asking his opinion on things at this point.

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Posted by Beebs1616

We have 51 days left and he keeps telling me, 'oh we'll figure it out.' I'm like if we have to order something online it might take a week or so. We don't have time to figure it out anymore! I think the stress has officially kicked in. I'm going to stop asking his opinion on things at this point.

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Lolol literally same thing. No more opinions it's all my decisions now that's it! Lol
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Posted by Beebs1616

We have 51 days left and he keeps telling me, 'oh we'll figure it out.' I'm like if we have to order something online it might take a week or so. We don't have time to figure it out anymore! I think the stress has officially kicked in. I'm going to stop asking his opinion on things at this point.

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Lolol literally same thing. No more opinions it's all my decisions now that's it! Lol
M

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Definately decided on this like last week. Figured I doubt hes gonna notice the details even the day of. so i might as well choose everything lol

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We are still in the early stages of planning but FH does this to me too. He gets annoyed if I am on my ipad & not watching what he is. I ask him 'Who found all of the venues in our price range? How about the photographer? Video? Oh...and the officiant. ME! This wedding is not going to plan itself!! So unless you want a list full of stuff do to, i'd zip it!'

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Posted by kim24

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Posted by Beebs1616

We have 51 days left and he keeps telling me, 'oh we'll figure it out.' I'm like if we have to order something online it might take a week or so. We don't have time to figure it out anymore! I think the stress has officially kicked in. I'm going to stop asking his opinion on things at this point.

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Lolol literally same thing. No more opinions it's all my decisions now that's it! Lol
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Definately decided on this like last week. Figured I doubt hes gonna notice the details even the day of. so i might as well choose everything lol

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That was my idea. FH will just deal with whatever is chosen!