i'm so mad right now!! (VERY LONG)

i usually don't complain about fi on these boards but i need to vent.

i've been, of course, planning the entire wedding by myself, as well as the engagement party that we had in may. he said he wanted to help out with the eng party but he was busy applying to grad schools and studying for the gmat- which i understood. he said as soon as it was over he'd help 100% with the wedding. i didn't really believe he would but appreciated it any way. well, i'm about 5 months away and have sooo much left to do- even some of the big things. fi knows how stressed i am- esp since work is really busy for me right now. so i gave him a list (at HIS request) for things he could help out with yesterday.

we had a plan tonight to do wedding stuff- i told him that i wanted to get HM planned out tonight so i needed him to get info on it. i go to his house and he's sitting on the **** computer playing a stupid computer game!!!! he says- oh why are you late? that's the only thing he says!! well, i was WORKING! and then he continues his game. finally he asks- what are the dates we are going on the HM? HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I TOLD HIM THAT!!!

thanks for letting me vent. it isn't a big deal but i get so frustrated!!

Re: i'm so mad right now!! (VERY LONG)

Learn to laugh more.... (not being mean ) it helps... they can't help it! they are men!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: i'm so mad right now!! (VERY LONG)

UGGGGGGHHHH I know how you feel FH thinks I'm nuts. I want things done yesterday!! I gave him 1 month to figure out where he wants to go on HM. Finally yesterday was his final day and what did he do. NOTHING!! I was so mad!! He gets mad when I get upset at him well what does he expect. Finally he went on the computer and found some cruises.

Belive me I feel your anger!!!

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im so sorry! men can be terrible sometimes...so unaware! i hope that everyting works out. take a nice deep breath...remember the day you got engaged....and think...for better or for worse, for better or for worse...

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typical

Re: i'm so mad right now!! (VERY LONG)

Sorry, but LMAO - EVERY SINGLE DAY I come home from a long day at work (he mostly works from home at his leisure) and he has been playing computer games for the past 3 hours. I am trying to get him to do honeymoon planning too.

Then I mentioned to him last night when I got home, 'Do you think we should invite ________ to the wedding?' (I hadn't thought of this one last person) and he goes, 'oh yeah, I told you that already' and I said 'NO, you didn't, and if you had made a list 3 months ago we wouldn't have this problem!'


Soooo difficult!!!