I miss you guys!! Update

We miss you too! Definitely keep us updated!

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Posted by ik1

The Stress is getting to you, Hang in there. I understand he needs time, Don't be so available, but do not ignor him. But do not seen like you are waiting around for him, waiting for his call. I think he needs to make more time for you guys.

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totally agree! definately come here and keep posting though

Hope this all works out for you

This can be very stressful on you and you need to decide how 'long' he is going to make you wait for him until he gets past 'this'. If he loves you like he says he does, then he should be able to forgive and forget. He shouldn't be sleeping with you and leading you on either (IMO)

Either way you need to stay strong and tell him how you feel. I'm not sure of what happened here, but take care of yourself. We're all here for you

just to piggyback on what someone else said....


I too am not 100% clear on your sitch, but from what I know, you were in the wrong- he called it off- his parents really should NOT have butt in......

with that being said- you should give him the time that he needs- he cant tell you he needs time, but its ok for you guys to do the 'ditty'- thats sending you mixed signals and thats not fair-- he has a right to want space--- so he should take it!

I dont think you should ignore, but def dont 'put out' until he figs out what he wants.

good luck!

Please let us know what is going on. I know we didn't reallt ever chat but you were one of the first people to comment on my dress and from what I can tell everyone loves you. I hope things work out for you really. Please stop in whenever you like.

Kristen you are always welcomed on the boards... I know you work out at the same gym I do and I've never seen you there. Or maybe I have and never knew it.

You deffinately keep things interesting here and don't worry everything will work out for you both.

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Posted by Soon2bMrsI

Kristen you are always welcomed on the boards... I know you work out at the same gym I do and I've never seen you there. Or maybe I have and never knew it.

You deffinately keep things interesting here and don't worry everything will work out for you both.

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I miss sky Mike so called says he workout there still I love him, I am an arse though

that's great to hear!

see just give him a little time and space to heal, and i know that everything will work out

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Posted by hayleyandsteve

that's great to hear!

see just give him a little time and space to heal, and i know that everything will work out

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I cant wait to tell you all, thanks for the faith

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

Hey I am confused..I didn't have time to read it all AND I have to leave...but it sounds like he is chasing you? I though he called it off.. if you want him, and he wants you...WHAT'S THE DEAL?

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He is so confused He said he want time

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So give him time. Yes you were in the wrong, but now he's taken advantage of you. He's aware how guilty you feel and how much you want to get back together, that now he's making you pay big time with the games. If he calls or email, take your time to get back to him and if in an email, mention very kindly that you knew that he's needs time and so you will give him that.

Stick to your guns and seriously find a toy, no more bootie calls, nothing gets solved that way.

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Posted by leshellem

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Posted by kdecamp

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

Hey I am confused..I didn't have time to read it all AND I have to leave...but it sounds like he is chasing you? I though he called it off.. if you want him, and he wants you...WHAT'S THE DEAL?

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He is so confused He said he want time

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So give him time. Yes you were in the wrong, but now he's taken advantage of you. He's aware how guilty you feel and how much you want to get back together, that now he's making you pay big time with the games. If he calls or email, take your time to get back to him and if in an email, mention very kindly that you knew that he's needs time and so you will give him that.

Stick to your guns and seriously find a toy, no more bootie calls, nothing gets solved that way.

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exactly, He is taking advange now. Play it nice, tell him you are giving him time, but play the game. You were in the wrong, but you are tring to make it up and he is taking advange.

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Posted by heatherandrichie

I hate to say this, but the busier you are the more he'll want you. If he thinks and sees 'life goes on w/o him', he'll freak in fear of losing you!
Call your GF's and have a few girls night. Say 'I need you girls to keep me busy'. They'll be happy to!

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totally agree

I agree with a few posters here in them advising you to try and make yourself less available to him. Men feel the need to work to attain things. Hence, make him work for you. You made a mistake, you admitted it to him. Now he needs time, and that is OK. Let him know that he can have his time. Just don't keep putting out for him. Let him know that when he clears up his head and if/when he decides to move forward with the relationship, then these things can resume. Yes, it will kill you not answering all his phone calls, but in the end you'll be happier.

There is no need for you to continue paying for your mistake the rest of your life.

Best of luck to you, keep us updating posting on the 07 board.

We miss 'ya!

take your time, go slow with him. you guys need to patch everything up. and no booty that will just make things cloudy.

good luck, everything is going to turn out for the best. hang in there!

keep us posted

OH MAN! I am sooo confused, I can't imagine how you feel, he needs to make up his mind and stop starting and stopping! He wants to be with you or he does not. If he wants TIME...then STICK TO IT, stop calling and asking you to hang with him and do things! It is not fair to either of you!

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

OH MAN! I am sooo confused, I can't imagine how you feel, he needs to make up his mind and stop starting and stopping! He wants to be with you or he does not. If he wants TIME...then STICK TO IT, stop calling and asking you to hang with him and do things! It is not fair to either of you!

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Its a nightmare, one day he is good then I am dating other people and he is freaking. I need to kic his ***, I am going to blow my brains out with this s h i tttt