Even though there are no up coming wedding plans in Mike and I thus far, may I be a lurker and keep you updated on us??? Sorry to barge in
BE HONEST!!!!!!!!!! Dont
**Soo this weekend was interesting, I listened to you and some advise below, and Did not see Mike this weekend, I went to my GF's and watched a movie and my pocketbook was in her kitchen, He called 3 times accusing me of being on a date! He called this morning, and left a VOICEMAIL, saying he was sorry an to say I love you!!! And he asked if I was still cooking him thanksgiving dinner and he wants me to go buy a x-mas tree with him!!! I am going to loose my freaking MIND!!!!!!!!!!!
TnOiOnL
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
KD1279
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
Tatum&Steve
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awww, update us!
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awww, update us!
he says he still loves me but he needs time right now. I am so impatient. Maybe this is gods lesson for me, I duuno?????
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
you guys are in no rush, take all the time you need to re-build your relationship. you WILL work this out and then we'll be lurking on you in the 08 boards?!!!!!!!?!!!
rachie
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aww we miss you too
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Hi sweetie! Keep your chin up. You're always welcome here
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
you guys are in no rush, take all the time you need to re-build your relationship. you WILL work this out and then we'll be lurking on you in the 08 boards?!!!!!!!?!!!
Yah!! from your mouth to gods ears, we just may elope by then. Our families know everything!!!!!!!
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
You better stop with givin him your bootie! And don't make yourself soooo readily available. Men consider that as a casual relationship. In other words, sex when they want it. Screw that, you wanna marry this man. Be less available, and in a month or 2, you make the bootie call. It's a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE different perspective. Trust me kiddo
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
you guys are in no rush, take all the time you need to re-build your relationship. you WILL work this out and then we'll be lurking on you in the 08 boards?!!!!!!!?!!!
Yah!! from your mouth to gods ears, we just may elope by then. Our families know everything!!!!!!!
well i wish you the best in whatever path you 2 choose.. but definatly TAKE YOUR TIME first! this is a VERY hard situation to overcome!!!
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Yea, you both need time - alone and with each other, from the post about it being called off ...sounded to me too much like his parents were calling the shots. Parents can be sooo overwhelming..if you do work things out, he needs to break away from him a bit.
Time will heal and time will tell.
ETA - STOP THE BOOTIE!!!
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
You better stop with givin him your bootie! And don't make yourself soooo readily available. Men consider that as a casual relationship. In other words, sex when they want it. Screw that, you wanna marry this man. Be less available, and in a month or 2, you make the bootie call. It's a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE different perspective. Trust me kiddo
REALLY!!!!! HELLLLP ME!!!!!!!! How do I make myself less avail. just dont go over his place. OMG Ilove this board!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
You better stop with givin him your bootie! And don't make yourself soooo readily available. Men consider that as a casual relationship. In other words, sex when they want it. Screw that, you wanna marry this man. Be less available, and in a month or 2, you make the bootie call. It's a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE different perspective. Trust me kiddo
I couldnt agree more.. See Kris isn't that I have been telling you from the beginning :)
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
You better stop with givin him your bootie! And don't make yourself soooo readily available. Men consider that as a casual relationship. In other words, sex when they want it. Screw that, you wanna marry this man. Be less available, and in a month or 2, you make the bootie call. It's a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE different perspective. Trust me kiddo
REALLY!!!!! HELLLLP ME!!!!!!!! How do I make myself less avail. just dont go over his place. OMG Ilove this board!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes don't answer all his calls, don't show up everytime HE WANTS YOU TO, trust me sweetie when I tell you that he will want to be with you more when you are not ALWAYS there..
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
You better stop with givin him your bootie! And don't make yourself soooo readily available. Men consider that as a casual relationship. In other words, sex when they want it. Screw that, you wanna marry this man. Be less available, and in a month or 2, you make the bootie call. It's a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE different perspective. Trust me kiddo
I couldnt agree more.. See Kris isn't that I have been telling you from the beginning :)
I know rachie blame it on the Yaz!! woo hoo. I know you are right ;(. He is calling this weekend(I didnt ask him to), I should takke the call just dont see him correct???
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I hate to say this, but the busier you are the more he'll want you. If he thinks and sees 'life goes on w/o him', he'll freak in fear of losing you! Call your GF's and have a few girls night. Say 'I need you girls to keep me busy'. They'll be happy to!
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hey kristin!!!! miss ya!!!! Hows everything been?!
I need patience, I need to stop giving him the bootie But I am done with that until we/me/us need to move forward
You better stop with givin him your bootie! And don't make yourself soooo readily available. Men consider that as a casual relationship. In other words, sex when they want it. Screw that, you wanna marry this man. Be less available, and in a month or 2, you make the bootie call. It's a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE different perspective. Trust me kiddo
I couldnt agree more.. See Kris isn't that I have been telling you from the beginning :)
I know rachie blame it on the Yaz!! woo hoo. I know you are right ;(. He is calling this weekend(I didnt ask him to), I should takke the call just dont see him correct???
Don't go out with your friends have a great time without HIM.. Clear your head as well. what do you mean he is calling this weekend?
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I hate to say this, but the busier you are the more he'll want you. If he thinks and sees 'life goes on w/o him', he'll freak in fear of losing you! Call your GF's and have a few girls night. Say 'I need you girls to keep me busy'. They'll be happy to!
Coulnd't agree more
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Stop answering his phone calls, and try your hardest not to await them. If he calls, so be it, grow yourself a back bone, and let him experience VOICE MAIL. He has you wrapped around his finger at this point. I feel it, and thats what my gut tells me. I could be wrong, but damnitt if I am, he better wake up and smell the coffee. He has a girl who is MADLY inlove with him, and not for nothing, his parents needs to minds their own business!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's the both of you that matter. So when he comes to his senses after you brush him off a bit. I say ELOPE!!! Screw everyone, it's your happiness that matters. Then you and he can have ALLLLLLLLLL the BOOTAY you want girlfriend.
