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nan&dave Posted: Oct 23, 2004 08:11 PM+
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I need help...

I'm thinking of my 12 year old cousins, being flowergirl and ring bearer. I'm having a no kids policy, so this would be great. Parents wouldn't have to worry that their kids are going swimming or something.

Do you think that their age is a big deal?
Is it necessary to 3-4 year olds as fg rb?

Thanks.

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prncssrachel Posted: Oct 23, 2004 08:13 PM+
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Re: I need help...

I think you can have whatever you want. Our ring bearer will be 12 and he looks about 17, so go figure
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JacnRob729 Posted: Oct 23, 2004 08:58 PM+
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Re: I need help...

instead of labeling then fg and rb....why dont you say junior bm and junior usher?
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Monkeybride Posted: Oct 23, 2004 08:59 PM+
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Re: I need help...


Posted by JacnRob729

instead of labeling then fg and rb....why dont you say junior bm and junior usher?



I agree.
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nan&dave Posted: Oct 23, 2004 09:03 PM+
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Re: I need help...

Great idea. Thanks ladies.
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janwinterbridejoy Posted: Oct 23, 2004 09:06 PM+
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Re: I need help...

i agree about the jr bridesmaid and jr usher. my god son was 10 and was too embarrassed to be the second ring bearer with dh 4 year nephew so i made him a jr usher and he felt more important and like a big guy lol
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FoxHollowbride0617 Posted: Oct 23, 2004 10:49 PM+
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Re: I need help...

I would agree that you could do Jr. Usher and Jr. Bridesmaid. FH has two cousin's one who is 4 and one who is 9. The 4 yr old is our flowergirl and we thought that the 9 year old was going to be too old to be a flowergirl so we asked her to be a Jr. Bridesmaid.
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Dooodles Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:38 AM+
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Re: I need help...

At that age, they would appreciate 'jr' in front of their title for BM or GM. Makes them feel more special and grown up!
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hbradio Posted: Oct 24, 2004 11:41 AM+
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Re: I need help...

I think you can have whatever you want!!! My ringbearers are 10 and 8 BUT the 8 year old, my brother is TALL - I mean over 4 feet but I dont care what people say.
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JLP Posted: Oct 24, 2004 11:52 AM+
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Re: I need help...

If you want them in your wedding, who cares what people will think.

My brother is walking down the aisle with his 9 year-old daughter (my JBM), because we have a female shortage.

Some people tell me it'll look strange to pair an adult male with a little girl, but it is her FATHER. Get over it. People are strange. Ignore what anyone else thinks.
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troutster Posted: Oct 24, 2004 12:10 PM+
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Re: I need help...

If you want them as you flower girl and ring bearer that is fine. I don't think there is an age limit.

I'm having my 7yr old niece as my flower girl and my 2 yr old nephew as the ring bearer.

Since we also want have fh cousins in it we are going to have his 10yr old as a jr bridesmaid and his 12 cousin as a jr usher.
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salsbride06 Posted: Oct 24, 2004 12:13 PM+
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Re: I need help...

I THINK THAT THE FG AND THE RG SHOULD BE WHOEVER YOU WANT. I DONT THINK THAT 12 IS PUSHING IT.
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