everyones been yelling at me today. i feel like sh*t.....
why does my mother have to yell at me because she has problems.
i then try and be nice and pick up the dinner fh's family ordered, then fh gets yelled at for having me get it, and gives me a guilt trip that i shouldnt have gone cause he got yelled at...... if he freaking got ready in the 15 minutes he had, he would have been able to pick it up on time..
franksbride
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Who's yelling and why?
butterfly20
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im sitting here in tears now
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OK I got a funny story for you...
when you think you have seen it all, their is always something to just knock your socks off....
So a nice spanish man comes up to a desk shaking his head saying oh no oh no I just dont know what to do. I need to see Jane Doe urgently. (obviously name has been changed to protect the innocent)
Ok spanish boss man you may go in.
He comes out still shaking his head and Jane Doe is laughing her @$$ off.
Then their is a tap at the door. just buzz the person in. The admin see's the top of her head so she knew who it was.
A nice old lady rushes pass the girls right into Jane Doe's office.
10 minutes later comes back and is standing behind a cube screaming for someone else. Everyone looks up and she's gone.
Nice old lady, aged 73 got up for work. Got dressed. Put on her knee hi's, sweater, cardigan, slip, shoes and coat
Gets to work, wonders why she was so cold.
Nice little old lady FORGOT TO PUT HER SKIRT ON!!!
Jane Doe told her to go home and get dressed. Nice old lady tells Jane Doe I cant, I'll go during lunch. Jane Doe says you cant stay like this, you have to go home and get dressed. Nice old lady says yea you're right I will. I dont want to ruin my reputation
Only in NY kiddies, only in NY
butterfly20
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that was a good laugh, thanks
Jen_n_Dale
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Only you withthisring. lmao. Hugs to you Em
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kmcwed
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Sorry you're having a bad day...
OctGroom
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don't let no one get you down!
butterfly20
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Posted by OctGroom
don't let no one get you down!
im trying... but with all the yelling at i got today.
,... and the thought of possibly being forced to invite fh's cousin i really feel sick... and im at the point where im tempted to cancel the wedding if i could get all the deposits back
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OctGroom
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Posted by butterfly20
Posted by OctGroom
don't let no one get you down!
im trying... but with all the yelling at i got today.
,... and the thought of possibly being forced to invite fh's cousin i really feel sick... and im at the point where im tempted to cancel the wedding if i could get all the deposits back
Oh no.. do not even entertain that thought! Seriously. When I first got engaed, somebody said to me who's been married for like 25 years.. 'there are gonna some tough nights when the familes just drive you crazy.'
And this can be wedding related or not. they will fight. For whatever reason, families are much more prone to fights while planning the wedding. I've sen it happen with the FW and FMIL. I have disagreed with my folks. Rarely, I have disagreed with FW as well.. But I never thought.. oh, let's just call this off.
You're tough Butterfly. You got a guy who loves you that's a GOOD man! Stick by him and he'll stick by you! This is temporary annoyance. It will go away. Look at the big picture --> You and Him!
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yeah well im serious, if i knew i could get deposits back id consider canceling because this is not the wedding i want, this is not what i planned for, and this is not a minor thing, this is being forced to invite people who have done horrible things, and im just sickened by the though of having to invite her
butterfly20
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if the big picture is just me and him, then we can get married in the church without everyone else theree
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Emily!!! I'm with you - I was in tears earlier because of my parents too!!! it's terrible that you get screwed when you try to plese other people and they don't take your feelings into consdieration! It's your wedding and it will be wonderful! you've put too much time into it now to let it all go....do not let them win! i won't let you!!! tom and i were talking the other day and we were saying how you are probably the nicest person we have ever met....you dont' deserve bad things! If you need to talk....you know where you can find me!
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Posted by butterfly20
if the big picture is just me and him, then we can get married in the church without everyone else theree
ALLRIGHTY THEN.. DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO KEEP YOU AND YOUR FH TOGETHER AND HAPPY!!!
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its too late already..... there are a bunch of deposits we wouldnt get back.... i just will go through with it, and resent, then ignore the family...... im really dissapointed in this whole thing
his other side of the family, is so supporting and normal, i dont need this negative side near me
