I need some advice
Basically to make a long story as short as possible....
I was working as a receptionist in an vet's office and I loved it! I was also going to school two nights a week. I finished with my associates degree in August and I had to quit that job b/c I started my Bachelors degree at John Jay in Manhatten and I had to take classes four nights a week and all day Friday. It didn't fit w/ my work schedule and I was losing too many hours. I started a new job in August doing a nanny position part time. I just took it b/c I needed something. I've been looking for a few months now for either a second job or one full time job. FINALLY I found a 2nd job. It was perfectly easy and three days a week but it required me getting up at 4:45 in the morning. I went on two interviews for the job (another nanny position) and I spent a few hours last Sunday with the child to get used to one another. I also worked hard to rearrange one of my days and hours with my other boss. I was SUPPOSED to start work on Tuesday (yesterday) and I had to be up at 4:30, so I set 'our' (FH and I's) alarm. Monday night before we went to bed we had an arguement about our three dogs and I went to bed myself. He came up a few hours later and I specifically said to him 'I set the alarm for 4:45, DON'T shut it off and not wake me up' I figured I'd warn him since it was an earlier time then he has to get up and since a few weeks ago he shut off my alarm when I had classes. So my body woke up on it's own at 5:51. I totally FREAKED out b/c I was supposed to be at the new job at 5:30. I jumped out, yelled at him and ran out of the house in PJS and didn't grab my cell. I go to work by 6:05 just in time to see my new boss leaving with his son and taking him home to ex wifes house b/c he had to leave for work. He didn't even give me a chance to explain what happened he just got in his car and left. I basically was horrified. I go into my car and drove home crying the whole way. I got back into bed and just laid there staring at the ceiling wanting to literally choke FH. He cost me this job. A job I worked hard to get and needed the extra 500 $$$ a month for wedding stuff and I just bought a new car! He knew I was mad at him so he just got up for work and left. I havn't spoken to him at all. Last night I stayed home from class b/c I was just too pissed and upset to head into NYC in the rain. He never said one word to me and I didn't say anything to him. He sees how mad I am at him and I'm not gonna be the one to give in this time. He didn't even apologize or ask if I was ok....nothing at all!!! I can't help being so mad at him and I don't know what to do! Anyone have any advice? (I'm sorry so long)
P.S Anyone know of any places hiring? Either a nanny position, a receptionist position in a Dr.'s office, Vet's office or law office. I have experience in those areas and I'm getting my BA in Legal Studies to go to law school.....THANKS![]()
I was working as a receptionist in an vet's office and I loved it! I was also going to school two nights a week. I finished with my associates degree in August and I had to quit that job b/c I started my Bachelors degree at John Jay in Manhatten and I had to take classes four nights a week and all day Friday. It didn't fit w/ my work schedule and I was losing too many hours. I started a new job in August doing a nanny position part time. I just took it b/c I needed something. I've been looking for a few months now for either a second job or one full time job. FINALLY I found a 2nd job. It was perfectly easy and three days a week but it required me getting up at 4:45 in the morning. I went on two interviews for the job (another nanny position) and I spent a few hours last Sunday with the child to get used to one another. I also worked hard to rearrange one of my days and hours with my other boss. I was SUPPOSED to start work on Tuesday (yesterday) and I had to be up at 4:30, so I set 'our' (FH and I's) alarm. Monday night before we went to bed we had an arguement about our three dogs and I went to bed myself. He came up a few hours later and I specifically said to him 'I set the alarm for 4:45, DON'T shut it off and not wake me up' I figured I'd warn him since it was an earlier time then he has to get up and since a few weeks ago he shut off my alarm when I had classes. So my body woke up on it's own at 5:51. I totally FREAKED out b/c I was supposed to be at the new job at 5:30. I jumped out, yelled at him and ran out of the house in PJS and didn't grab my cell. I go to work by 6:05 just in time to see my new boss leaving with his son and taking him home to ex wifes house b/c he had to leave for work. He didn't even give me a chance to explain what happened he just got in his car and left. I basically was horrified. I go into my car and drove home crying the whole way. I got back into bed and just laid there staring at the ceiling wanting to literally choke FH. He cost me this job. A job I worked hard to get and needed the extra 500 $$$ a month for wedding stuff and I just bought a new car! He knew I was mad at him so he just got up for work and left. I havn't spoken to him at all. Last night I stayed home from class b/c I was just too pissed and upset to head into NYC in the rain. He never said one word to me and I didn't say anything to him. He sees how mad I am at him and I'm not gonna be the one to give in this time. He didn't even apologize or ask if I was ok....nothing at all!!! I can't help being so mad at him and I don't know what to do! Anyone have any advice? (I'm sorry so long)
P.S Anyone know of any places hiring? Either a nanny position, a receptionist position in a Dr.'s office, Vet's office or law office. I have experience in those areas and I'm getting my BA in Legal Studies to go to law school.....THANKS
