I need some hugs

I haven't been on here in a while. I miss all of you!!! I have a decent amount of stress, (don't we all???) that I don't feel I should be dealing with, and I don't want to go into it it'll take you all day to read.
Basically I just don't feel like going through with the whole wedding thing I want to marry my FH, but I really regret not doing it when we were in Vegas and skipping the planning.

Thanks for listening!

Don't worry... take a little break from wedding planning and get refreshed. Once it becomes a chore you need to step back for a bit because you want to enjoy it. And remember- we're all here! Vent away!!

You have gotten a lot accomplished. Don't feel stressed. Take a break till the New Year! When the day is here you'll be glad you did it!

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Posted by heatherandrichie

You have gotten a lot accomplished. Don't feel stressed. Take a break till the New Year! When the day is here you'll be glad you did it!

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AGREED!!!

We're taking a break until the New Year. We didn't want wedding planning to overtake our lives. We chose to back away from it from November to the end of January. That way, we can concentrate more on Thanksgiving, Christmas, and us

I guess we should too, my mom keeps pressing the issue of getting the florist and limos by Thanksgiving, and then all the major vendors are done. Then we'll def have a little break till we need to do invites, etc.

I know I've vented before and its the same crap still, my mom thinks the BP is too big/ she's paying for the whole thing/ FIL's refuse to pay for anything (where as before they just hadn't offered)/
My mom and MatOH are taking care of my shower and now I come to find out the rest of my girls wanted to do that and are complaining to FH who didn't tell me FMIL did/while they have eachothers numbers and they should've called eachother or me not FH/We still don't have a place to live, while its not the biggest deal we have time, FH doesn't want to move out his house till after we're married and I flat out refuse to live with my FIL's.
There's the short version.

Thanks for listening!

Tell your mom how stressed you are and that she needs to back off.
Don't sweat it. Just tell your mom 'we' said you have plenty of time to get a florist and a limo.

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Posted by heatherandrichie

Tell your mom how stressed you are and that she needs to back off.
Don't sweat it. Just tell your mom 'we' said you have plenty of time to get a florist and a limo.

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thanks ladies I really appreciate it!

awwww i hope you feel better soon! here are some extra huggies for you