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I need support from my classless group today!

Original post by MuchInLuvMichi

Maribelle7777 Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

no not that i see..but i kno his most recent ex was a HUGE problem for him, she was kinda stalking him..but geez what does that hafta do with me and him, no reason to blow me off like this..honestly by monday if i dont hear anything, then im gonnahafta say screw it and move on..its just a really weird situation..all of these mixed opinions i m getting today r exactly whats all going threw my mind.. i would rather just know where we stand even if its bad then be left wondering like this...i seriosuly just wanna cry right now


Well maybe the Ex is back in his life...but NOT by his choice....and maybe he feels it best to deal with her before he continues the relationship he's built with you. God only knows what goes through men's heads (or women's...lol) but perhaps that is the case and he figured better not to tell you in case you get upset and think he's going back with her if that is not the case.

However if he's still distant after a week, I would mention it again and say 'whatever is going on, I hope it clears up soon because I'd like to see you'. If he hedges, then maybe just play it cool. Like 'ok well when you have tackled whatever it is you got going on, you know where I am'. I would play it as being concerned (which you are) but not freaking out. After another week, then I'd call and say 'listen it's obvious you got something going on that's taken priority so maybe I can come and get my DVD's and pay you for that extra ticket'. I hope it won't come to that.
I hope it's nothing horrible either.

Good luck
don424 Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

Posted by jenny2penny

Posted by ambersmom
Going to fast?? Who set the pace retard??? Men suck....


You having my crying here......RETARDS!!


calling us retards is a tad out of line, no?
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

oh lord, i can not cry here at work!!!! im sorry jenny..dont cry please, its not my intent

im just really confused..u all make such good valid points on so many levels. basically if i dont hear from him by lets say monday, im just gonna leave him a breezy message that obviously he is preoccupied with stuff and altho i had a great time hanging out with him maybe now is just not the right time, when can i give him back his stuff..blah blah..who the f*ck knows what im gonna do..maybe hell call maybe he wont.. i just feel sick to my stomach, b/c i really hate being hurt like this., and the sick part is half the time men dont even realize what they are doing!!maybe thats what i get for allowing myself to care a little bit about someone again. life can b really F-d up
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

i agree jenny, i kno u went threw more then ur share of tuff stuff..its just way too confusing, i would rather someone just b honest and no 1 is putting words in any1s mouth so why say something if u dont mean it

don424 Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

i agree, i was responding to the comment, Men Suck -- followed by Retards

I don't like that word
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

no offense don, cause u kno i love ya and all..but men deserve a lot worse then being called retards..and for the record i m pmsing and m already annoyed at the oppostie sex so i would proceed with caution
don424 Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

no offense don, cause u kno i love ya and all..but men deserve a lot worse then being called retards..and for the record i m pmsing and m already annoyed at the oppostie sex so i would proceed with caution


OK, since you're having a bad day, I'll let it slide

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today! Really baffled by a problem im having..UPDATED WITH ISSUES

lol thank you don
boosh78201 Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today!

Michi, this is my suggestion to you. I wouldnt put 'all my eggs in one basket' with this guy. I would leave myself open and still be on the lookout to meet new people.

Just from what you are telling us it sounds like he has alot of issues going on. Personally if his ex burned him real bad and he's not over it, then he shouldnt be dating. But I dont see why he cant give you a quick call or email just to say, Im real busy but I havent forgotten about you, or something like that.

Also, I think its time you discuss your relationship status with him. Its been a month and he hasnt said anything. For all you know, he might be dating other people (Im not saying he is) and being totally comfortable with it. Just out of courisity, but how often do you see him and how often does he call?

But for now, I would just wait till the weekend and see what happens.

Good luck sweetie!!
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: I need support from my classless group today!

there was no rhyme or reason to how we were with each other some days we spoke 2 times, some days none, some days 3 times..and the hrs at which we spoke varied..at the beginning he even came by my job twice, then he surprised me with the tickets..it just kinda makes no sense, all i wanna know is what is going on one way or the other good or bad, i m royally confused cause all he did was say we gotta do this, we this we that no indicatin of us not seeing each other again..but ur def. right when u say dont put all my eggs in one basket with him cause im confused as hell right now

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