This is so unreal..i want someone to pinch me and wake me up out of this nightmare. We had a blackout last night and my son asked if he could sleep over his friends house who lives next door. I said it was fine, because we were going to go to the pool today. So...apparently they snuck out to go to his girlfriends house who invited them over to watch a movie. They at first didn't want to go because her dad was home. He's a correction officer. But..they went anyway and stood in the basement. Her father caught her and my sons friend. My son was in the bathroom when he came down. He started screaming at her and his friend and then proceeded to hit her. My son says he freaked out and stood in the bathroom. His friend left the house and came back home. The whole time my son is in the bathroom in the basement, he says there was a lot of fighting going on upstairs and then a loud thud. At 7:30am I was woken up by detectives notifying me my son was missing. I told them how could that be when he was next door?? They told me about an incident that had occured and asked me to check for him..which I did and he wasn't here. They went back to the house and found him at still in the bathroom and he was crying. His girlfriend (15 yrs old) apparently got hold of her fathers gun and shot herself in the chest (which was the loud thud) and died this morning. I am in shock..and can't even begin to tell you all how I am feeling. I knew, and cared for this girl. I just spoke w/her and her father last night..because he came to lend us flashlights since we had a blackout. And now I hear this...I don't even know what to do..say. My son is not saying much...but I know he is very very sad. I hate that this happened..and although I know they are teenagers..I wish they would have never gone over there, because maybe this wouldn't have happened. Apparently there were alot of other problems their family had (which she never let on), and I guess it lead her to do this. Her father was VERY over protective of her..which is understandable...but now he is being questioned because of her getting a hold of this gun. This is a tragedy...one that I don't know how I or her family are going to be able to overcome. I need your prayers ladies...please.
sami
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This is very sad .. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers! Stay strong for your son
mrsh2b
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Oh my God that is awful...i feel terrible for your son.
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What a sad story, I am glad your son is okay
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You need to get your Son to talk. You need to know what he is thinking and get him some help. That is a lot of stress for a 15 year old to handle.
I agree. I am so sorry that he had to go through that....anyone would be in shock, but especially at that impressionable age....
So sad I will pray for that young girl, may she rest in peace, and for her family
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OMG that is terrible. I am so sorry for you, your son and her family. What a tragedy!
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OMG Michelle,
I've had a life threatning situation happen to me this past weekend w/ my twin brother,and let me tell you the power of prayer does work. It may not always work out the way you planned but it does ease some things. Things like what are probably going through your sons mind right now. Pleas now that my thoughts and prayers are w/ you,and you family,as well as his girlfriedns family I only wish I could do more.... I'm tearing up as I type this b/c this is really hitting close to home,a nd I wish your situation had turned out differently. If ther is anything you need, Please donlt be afraid to ask
Sharene
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This is horrible news! My prayers are with you and her family.
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WOW, my prayers are with you and your family.
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that is such horrible news.. my heart aches for her family!
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What a tragedy. I am keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.
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My prayers are with you all. Such an unfortunate tragedy.
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I can't even imagine... I hope and pray your Son can heal from this.
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My prayers and thoughts are with your son and this young girl's family. What a tragedy