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I NEED YOU ALL....

Original post by Mitabtrfly

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This is so unreal..i want someone to pinch me and wake me up out of this nightmare. We had a blackout last night and my son asked if he could sleep over his friends house who lives next door. I said it was fine, because we were going to go to the pool today. So...apparently they snuck out to go to his girlfriends house who invited them over to watch a movie. They at first didn't want to go because her dad was home. He's a correction officer. But..they went anyway and stood in the basement. Her father caught her and my sons friend. My son was in the bathroom when he came down. He started screaming at her and his friend and then proceeded to hit her. My son says he freaked out and stood in the bathroom. His friend left the house and came back home. The whole time my son is in the bathroom in the basement, he says there was a lot of fighting going on upstairs and then a loud thud. At 7:30am I was woken up by detectives notifying me my son was missing. I told them how could that be when he was next door?? They told me about an incident that had occured and asked me to check for him..which I did and he wasn't here. They went back to the house and found him at still in the bathroom and he was crying. His girlfriend (15 yrs old) apparently got hold of her fathers gun and shot herself in the chest (which was the loud thud) and died this morning. I am in shock..and can't even begin to tell you all how I am feeling. I knew, and cared for this girl. I just spoke w/her and her father last night..because he came to lend us flashlights since we had a blackout. And now I hear this...I don't even know what to do..say. My son is not saying much...but I know he is very very sad. I hate that this happened..and although I know they are teenagers..I wish they would have never gone over there, because maybe this wouldn't have happened. Apparently there were alot of other problems their family had (which she never let on), and I guess it lead her to do this. Her father was VERY over protective of her..which is understandable...but now he is being questioned because of her getting a hold of this gun. This is a tragedy...one that I don't know how I or her family are going to be able to overcome. I need your prayers ladies...please.
Nali

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I'm so sorry....
MrsH1156

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I am so very sorry for your son's loss.
KObride

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I am so sorry. Your son and his gf's family are in my prayers....

Katie&Chris2006

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OMG i'm so sorry. Please let me know if there is anything i can do for you.
CaMacho

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Wow, i'm so sorry!
lisalisa27

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Oh my god this is terrible.

MrsStefan

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OMG!! I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry to hear about this terrible story. I would recommend that you have your son talk to a therapist. He is probably experiencing so many emotions right now. I am a therapist and I have seen so many kids witness horrible things and it really does take an emotional/psychological toll on the kids. Good luck to you and your family. I'll keep you all in my prayers
SUNSHINE24

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OMG that is absolutely terrible. Many
Soon2bMrsERH

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I will pray for you, your family and hers.
SeptBride70

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I'm so sorry... what a horrible tragedy. You need to get your son to talk to someone --either you or a professional about this as soon as possible.

Something about the Father being so over-protective and the daughter being so upset that she would shoot herself leaves me uneasy. I just feel like something else has to be going on-- it reminds me of sexual abuse or something-- i don't know, I could just be going out on a limb here but something had to be VERY wrong for to shoot herself like that---

either way, I'm SO sorry, I hope you are able to help your son at this very confusing and difficult time
SPITSBRIDE

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OMG, that is so horrible!!


I am so sorry to hear what you and your son are going thru, you will all be in my thoughts and prayers
snydl40

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OMG-I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and her family.
Soon2BeMrsD

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i am at a loss for words, thank god your son is safe, that poor girl!! its so scary how life is...you and your son and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...i am so so terribly sorry
shellnroc

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OMG...
I am sooo Sorry!!!
alioop4282

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Wow.
I don't even know what to say expect for I'm deeply sorry you are all going through this.
You're in my thoughts.
CC59

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How awful! Lots of for you and your son. This must be very difficult for all of you.
camerakrazie

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omg...so sorry to hear about this...has your son said anything?

hugs and prayers for you

be strong



Mandyin2007

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OMG, I am so sorry for yoour son and the family of the girl. He must be in shock. My prayers go out to you. One of my friends killed himself when I was about your sons age and it took me a long time to get over. I can't imagine the situation he is in though.

Please let your son know that nothing he could have done that could have prevented this. Committing suicide doesn't just happen because of one thing. It is a culmination of different things. I just hope your son knows it is not his fault in any way.

FDWedding07

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I am so sorry!! I will pray for you, your son, the girl and her friends and family.

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