I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We dont fight over wedding stuff really at all. We are on such a good wavelength and I really feel it has drawn us closer together as a couple. I know there has to be others out there that feel like this too.

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We fought more about my parents at the beginning - as soon as we decided not to let them get to us anymore, we became a lot closer, stronger, and yes - rarely fight!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

I feel the same way as well! A lot of our fights in the past were the type of 'are we ever going to get married?'

We have normal disagreements (like him not calling if he's going to be late).

ETA: We're pretty much on the same wavelength wedding-wise as well, and the things that one of us is passionate about, the other one is flexible on.

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

we argue over the same stupid stuff...nothing new, nothing more....always related to $$ which we don't have!

he does irritate me more...but mostly b/c he doesn't help plan...it doesn't start any fights though.

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Posted by ali120206

I feel the same way as well! A lot of our fights in the past were the type of 'are we ever going to get married?'

We have normal disagreements (like him not calling if he's going to be late).

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lol we had one of those fights a few weeks ago.

Never about the wedding stuff though. Its nice...

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

We dont fight over wedding stuff really at all. We are on such a good wavelength and I really feel it has drawn us closer together as a couple. I know there has to be others out there that feel like this too.

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same here! since we got engaged last year and planned this wedding---every thing we do together has made it that much more real. i don't think we've ever had a happier time in our lives. we love planning this wedding together---and we just wish it would just BE HERE so we can be married!!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We never fight over wedding stuff, he says whatever I want it's my day but will help and give imput if asked, he just wanted to do the registry.
But really we never fight, at least nothing major always the small stuff,
i don't think being engaged has changed our relationship at all, I am just thankful for that after watching friends fight like crazy when they were engaged

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We fought over wedding things alot but then when the countdown was at 5-6 months, we stopped and just looked forward to the big day.

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We fought a lot because we had the stress of the wedding and buying a condo within one month of eachother. DH's grandmother passed away in Dec. (we were living in the apt. above her) and due to family issues with DH's side, we were forced to move out ASAPso his family could sell the house and get PAID! We didn't plan on moving out until we bought a house so we didn't want to pay rent again...we finally found a middle gound and bought a condo. Now that the wedding is over and we are settled in, things have been way better!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

me too! he has been more helpful that i ever imagined...everything form pickin out the brdesmaid shoes to helping me brainstorm ideas for the programs...who knew??
i am marrying the best person ive ever known, this process should def bring you closer -- thats what its all about!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We never fight over anything. That's why I am marrying him!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

I am having the best time planning our day together..we just click .,..we both look forward to wedding stuff..its great , im lucky!!!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

we have fought less too since getting engaged. i think its because we are actually planning things for 'us' rather than me making plans for my future and him making plans for his.

and every time we go to a family function his family doesnt harrass uss as to when are getting engaged. lol

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We fought in the begining but that was b/c I was a lunatic and thought I could do everything all at once. We made a timeline for every month until we get married and what needs to be done. It really has eased things a lot and we are having so much fun w/ all the planning.

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

I feel really lucky, fh will let me babble for hours about little details (still agonizing over the guest book ideas) and get excited (as if on cue) when needed. He's excited about helping with certain areas and he's supportive of my choices in the areas he's not so interested in. He even managed to respond positively without batting an eye when I completely blew out the invitation budget.

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Hey Tracy -
My DH and I were the same way...He loved wedding planning just as much as I did, and we both wanted the same things...AND...we were getting married...all the problems and glitches didnt bother us, but made us closer

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

sometimes i get sensitive when he is not too enthusiastic about some GREAT (LOL) idea i came up with, but im learning to deal w/ that!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

I have to say I feel so lucky. FH and I don't really fight about much of anything... wedding or non-wedding related! I am actually thrilled that he is so into all the planning with me! Hopefully it continues!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We really never fought to begin with. Very little...when big, lump sum payments were due usually!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

same here...we are having the BEST time planning :) I think it just comes down to good communication & not letting little things get us stressed. As a couple, we understand that things WILL go wrong...but God takes care of it & thats that. We're not letting the little things get us down...and we've had some crazy stuff happen even down to my father deciding not to help us at ALL with expenses! I think it's just a matter of enjoying each other, savoring all the moments (because we all know it goes by so fast!) and keeping your heads up even when things turn haywire....we know our wedding day is going to be the greatest day ever regardless of what goes wrong!