Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We had like 2 itty bitty arguments over the whole wedding so far....its really been smooth sailing and yes, I think it has brought us much closer. We both can't wait to be married!!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

Fh and I rarely ever fight, i think we have fought less... actually most fighting is with his mom! but we have a united front with each other and deal with it together... i think it has made things with US better because we are finally learning how to stand up to his mom her games and pressure and that really has only ever been the main challenge in our relationship.. so between Fh and me things have only gotten better.

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

We have had a great time planning the wedding, no fights al all. But now that the wedding is 3 weeks away we are getting in little tifts about silly things. The stress is getting to us.

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

for the past 2 months i've been asking FH to talk to his parents about the budget. thats the first thing you're supposed to do when getting engaged. and he hasnt and wont. i've talked about fmil before and i really think she has a hold on him and he's scared to talk to her about money. i've talked to my family about money and know what the deal is, why cant he? i argue with him every night over it its so ridiculous. ive been doing all of the planning and researching why cant he do 1 little thing for me? uggh!

Re: I noticed a lot of you have been fighting with FH as wedding gets closer....Am I the only one who has fought less with FH since this whole thing started?

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

We dont fight over wedding stuff really at all. We are on such a good wavelength and I really feel it has drawn us closer together as a couple. I know there has to be others out there that feel like this too.

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OMG! I feel the same way too! He's been awesome since we started planning and more understanding...but over breakfast today we actually noticed how tired and worn out we are from the planning...but its a mutual feeling...I feel much closer to him.