i REALLY want opinions on this!!!

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by failurebydsign


just to clear things up i never said i was calling anyone

i asked WOULD YOU or WOULDNT YOU

plain and simple

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I completely understand that you started this thread to get opinions on whether you should call or not. If you had already made up your mind then this thread would be pretty pointless, wouldn't it? I gave you my god's honest opinion in my post, I'm sorry if anything I had said offended you.

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Posted by failurebydsign

it was not a question based on if i was going to call based on the feedback i was going to get

i never had it in my head that i was going to make a phone call..i asked something

thats what im trying to defend here

i didnt post this like..hmm..should i cal or not..let me ask the girls..that wasnt the intention..it was just a question to see what others would do
i was NEVER GOING TO MAKE A CALL

my wedding is over and i really could care less what people say about my hall now..its not fun to see bad things..but it has no affect on my wedding now that it is over

so no calls were ever going to be made

so thank you for making it seem that i am a tattle tale and people should not talk to me about things because they think im going to call a vendor and tell on them

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by failurebydsign

it was not a question based on if i was going to call based on the feedback i was going to get

i never had it in my head that i was going to make a phone call..i asked something

thats what im trying to defend here

i didnt post this like..hmm..should i cal or not..let me ask the girls..that wasnt the intention..it was just a question to see what others would do
i was NEVER GOING TO MAKE A CALL

my wedding is over and i really could care less what people say about my hall now..its not fun to see bad things..but it has no affect on my wedding now that it is over

so no calls were ever going to be made

so thank you for making it seem that i am a tattle tale and people should not talk to me about things because they think im going to call a vendor and tell on them

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I think you're taking all the other responses that are making you mad out on me. When I used the word tattle tale I was referring to girls in the past who have called up vendors and reported what they found being said about them on the board. Not you. But I think you can see why most of the girls were confused when answering your question. Why would you ask us if we'd let our RH know if we read bad things about them and then get angry with us when we think you're asking this because you're thinking of contacting them. I also think you're misinterpreting my tone, I am not attacking you, which from your previous response I can see that is how you feel. I am simply looking for clarification of the post.

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Posted by failurebydsign

.just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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Posted by failurebydsign

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by failurebydsign

it was not a question based on if i was going to call based on the feedback i was going to get

i never had it in my head that i was going to make a phone call..i asked something

thats what im trying to defend here

i didnt post this like..hmm..should i cal or not..let me ask the girls..that wasnt the intention..it was just a question to see what others would do
i was NEVER GOING TO MAKE A CALL

my wedding is over and i really could care less what people say about my hall now..its not fun to see bad things..but it has no affect on my wedding now that it is over

so no calls were ever going to be made

so thank you for making it seem that i am a tattle tale and people should not talk to me about things because they think im going to call a vendor and tell on them

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I think you're taking all the other responses that are making you mad out on me. When I used the word tattle tale I was referring to girls in the past who have called up vendors and reported what they found being said about them on the board. Not you. But I think you can see why most of the girls were confused when answering your question. Why would you ask us if we'd let our RH know if we read bad things about them and then get angry with us when we think you're asking this because you're thinking of contacting them. I also think you're misinterpreting my tone, I am not attacking you, which from your previous response I can see that is how you feel. I am simply looking for clarification of the post.

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im sorry i didnt mean it towards you but you were the only one that said i was going to make a phone call when that was never said

i should have learned my lesson last week with whatever happend..just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by failurebydsign

.just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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I am sorry, that is just ridiculous. There are plenty of married girls who don't feel the same way as you. If things you say are getting turned around, you being married has nothing to do with it.

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

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Posted by failurebydsign

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by failurebydsign

it was not a question based on if i was going to call based on the feedback i was going to get

i never had it in my head that i was going to make a phone call..i asked something

thats what im trying to defend here

i didnt post this like..hmm..should i cal or not..let me ask the girls..that wasnt the intention..it was just a question to see what others would do
i was NEVER GOING TO MAKE A CALL

my wedding is over and i really could care less what people say about my hall now..its not fun to see bad things..but it has no affect on my wedding now that it is over

so no calls were ever going to be made

so thank you for making it seem that i am a tattle tale and people should not talk to me about things because they think im going to call a vendor and tell on them

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I think you're taking all the other responses that are making you mad out on me. When I used the word tattle tale I was referring to girls in the past who have called up vendors and reported what they found being said about them on the board. Not you. But I think you can see why most of the girls were confused when answering your question. Why would you ask us if we'd let our RH know if we read bad things about them and then get angry with us when we think you're asking this because you're thinking of contacting them. I also think you're misinterpreting my tone, I am not attacking you, which from your previous response I can see that is how you feel. I am simply looking for clarification of the post.

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im sorry i didnt mean it towards you but you were the only one that said i was going to make a phone call when that was never said

i should have learned my lesson last week with whatever happend..just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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It's not you. Everything gets turned around on this site. Put a whole bunch of women in one room and it's bound to happen. That's women!!! There I took the heat off of you and brought it on to me. How many responses do you think I will get for my sexist remark??

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Posted by madseason

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by failurebydsign

.just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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I am sorry, that is just ridiculous. There are plenty of married girls who don't feel the same way as you. If things you say are getting turned around, you being married has nothing to do with it.

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Please remember in an open forum that caters to women who are hormonal and stressing and opiniated - things are going to be turned around or misconstruded. You really have to let things go. You also have to take a look at the topics you are posting - its like lighting a fire to us girls, which is ok if you can control it, and that is by letting things go. Thats why we all have to be careful with what we post. u kno? Girls are SUPER opiniated and very passionate about everything and anything no matter how small...and its hard to tell an emotion by whats typed. And its all of what u make of it - if people contijnue to get defensive - then ull feel u have no place. We are supposed to post onhere for info and fun - so keep it light and move on and dont take anything personally.

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Posted by failurebydsign

just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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Posted by jgl

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Posted by failurebydsign

just dont get why when i say anything it gets turned around..simply becuase im married and really have no place here anymore

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huh? Are you serious? i never look at these posts and say.. oh her opinion or post means nothing because she is married. and i really dont see how anyone is attacking you.. they were answering your question and that is it.

when i answered i answered in a way that is directed towards anyone asking/wondering

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Posted by failurebydsign

im over it..i dont care..anything i ask some how gets turned into dramai..

how..ill never know..im the most easy gonig person you will ever meet and nothing ever offends me or gets me upset
but this is just starting to get crazy

i dont get it anymore..i ONCE AGAIN should not have even said anythingon a forum where i knew my words were going to get turned around

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Posted by failurebydsign

im over it..i dont care..anything i ask some how gets turned into dramai..

how..ill never know..im the most easy gonig person you will ever meet and nothing ever offends me or gets me upset
but this is just starting to get crazy

i dont get it anymore..i ONCE AGAIN should not have even said anythingon a forum where i knew my words were going to get turned around

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Posted by failurebydsign

im over it..i dont care..anything i ask some how gets turned into dramai..

how..ill never know..im the most easy gonig person you will ever meet and nothing ever offends me or gets me upset
but this is just starting to get crazy

i dont get it anymore..i ONCE AGAIN should not have even said anythingon a forum where i knew my words were going to get turned around

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Posted by failurebydsign

im over it..i dont care..anything i ask some how gets turned into dramai..

how..ill never know..im the most easy gonig person you will ever meet and nothing ever offends me or gets me upset
but this is just starting to get crazy

i dont get it anymore..i ONCE AGAIN should not have even said anythingon a forum where i knew my words were going to get turned around

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