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i should have listened to my mom!!!!!!!!!!

Original post by Dom n Nic

my mom always told me you know who your real friends are when you graduate H.S & when you get married..
and told me i should just have family in the BP but noooooooooooooooo I don't listen

well they were my friends after H.S
but now they drifted away from me so much
they hang out -don't call . never include me in things any more. My mom tells me they can be jealous that i am getting married and they do not have that yet.. but we are friends why would they be like that ..

now its like if thry were my true friends wouldnt they call me to hang out and do things, like for exp. my friend got dog on sat and all of the girls went to go see the dog at her house.. i didnt even know she had a dog didnt even know they went there. and they tell me oh we 4got ..

now i am in the process of ordering the bm dresses and they wanted to be involved now i want to order them and just tell them oooooo i 4got to tell you i was going to look at bm dresses lol..

i really did not think my best friends would be like this.. its like i am a outcast just cause im getting married.. just because i am getting married does not mean i cant hang out and do things. ok granted i can not do most of the things they do anymore like go on vacation and go away every weekend because i have to save for a wedding. but come on now

did this happen to anyone else..
i have other friends lol
but these 2 im talking about are in my bp
and i have known them for over 13 years
KimmyKim7481 Posted:

Re: i should have listened to my mom!!!!!!!!!!

geee what gave it away lolol
at least i have a real friend in the bp lol


I just got all smiley when I read that
VS11 Posted:

Re: i should have listened to my mom!!!!!!!!!!


Posted by Dom n Nic

my mom always told me you know who your real friends are when you graduate H.S & when you get married..
and told me i should just have family in the BP but noooooooooooooooo I don't listen

well they were my friends after H.S
but now they drifted away from me so much
they hang out -don't call . never include me in things any more. My mom tells me they can be jealous that i am getting married and they do not have that yet.. but we are friends why would they be like that ..

now its like if thry were my true friends wouldnt they call me to hang out and do things, like for exp. my friend got dog on sat and all of the girls went to go see the dog at her house.. i didnt even know she had a dog didnt even know they went there. and they tell me oh we 4got ..

now i am in the process of ordering the bm dresses and they wanted to be involved now i want to order them and just tell them oooooo i 4got to tell you i was going to look at bm dresses lol..

i really did not think my best friends would be like this.. its like i am a outcast just cause im getting married.. just because i am getting married does not mean i cant hang out and do things. ok granted i can not do most of the things they do anymore like go on vacation and go away every weekend because i have to save for a wedding. but come on now

did this happen to anyone else..
i have other friends lol
but these 2 im talking about are in my bp
and i have known them for over 13 years



babygirl..

I think everyone goes through this..You have to speak with them and tell them how you feel and see how they react.
KimmyKim7481 Posted:

Re: i should have listened to my mom!!!!!!!!!!

Being that I know who they are i'd say CUT THEM OUT!! Never cared that much about them well at least one more than the other

I'M TOTALLY KIDDING!!!!!

Talk to them and see whats up and why they always do that to you...Not good to hold things in IMO Let loose
cindyandkevin Posted:

Re: i should have listened to my mom!!!!!!!!!!

I hate to say it, but in cases like this mom's usually right. Shhh, don't tell her I said that! But we're too busy leading our own lives and becoming 'real' adults to listen. Gotta learn the hard way!

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